Guys...ever been "cucked" but didnt find out till later ?

What did you do ,?
The first thing I felt was surprise, when she told me I thought it was a joke, I couldn't believe that my "prudish" wife was capable of being unfaithful to me, then I saw that she was serious and I felt angry, I felt the desire to go to the clinic and beat the ...... out of the doctor, I hated knowing that both of them had made fun of me, he knew me and my wife was even capable of talking to his wife as if nothing had happened between them, but there was something that stopped me: I was also excited, and I couldn't stop imagining her fucking someone else. In short, that night I got so angry that I spent it awake, I couldn't ...... thinking about her betrayal, but eventually I accepted that it was something that exited me and to this day we are still married. But every now and then I get angry again.
 
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I’m pretty sure this happened to me when I was about 17?

My then girlfriend (short time) Linda also 17, had a house party! I had a mate having a party on the same night nearby! My mate and I flipped between the two houses all night!

Upon my return to my girlfriend’s house much later, she grabbed me and dragged me into her bedroom! We were fucking within seconds and she was very ready! A few minutes later a bang at the door and Linda’s mate said; ‘blimey Linda, who have you got in there now!’

I carried on as I was enjoying myself and never questioned her about it!

We didn’t last long, but I still often wonder?🤔
 
I’m pretty sure this happened to me when I was about 17?

My then girlfriend (short time) Linda also 17, had a house party! I had a mate having a party on the same night nearby! My mate and I flipped between the two houses all night!

Upon my return to my girlfriend’s house much later, she grabbed me and dragged me into her bedroom! We were fucking within seconds and she was very ready! A few minutes later a bang at the door and Linda’s mate said; ‘blimey Linda, who have you got in there now!’

I carried on as I was enjoying myself and never questioned her about it!

We didn’t last long, but I still often wonder?🤔
Well we guys can fuck around when we were single so why not the girls a young guys mission in life is to get his dick into as many females as he can so why cant the ladies do the same,?
 
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To become a true tradtional cuck husband is NOT to know at the time.

Most men on this site more discribe having or wanting a "hotwife" as in a women he knows/watches her fucks other men.

I was made a true cuck husband by my young wife when she was about 20 and didnt know it for several years by which time my status as an unaware cuck had been confirmed several times.
Well. Then I’m a cuck. I wasn’t aware until she confessed 15years after the fact
 
I was a paramedic married to Sonja who seemed to call and be called by a young co worker at TIM HORTONS; when I told her I was a little suspicious of their involvement she told me I was imagining things and he was much too young for her. One night I worked a nigh shift and after a call at 2:30 in the morning I went by our house to see a lapis Neon, license XCC-807 in our driveway
 
I was a paramedic married to Sonja who seemed to call and be called by a young co worker at TIM HORTONS; when I told her I was a little suspicious of their involvement she told me I was imagining things and he was much too young for her. One night I worked a nigh shift and after a call at 2:30 in the morning I went by our house to see a lapis Neon, license XCC-807 in our driveway
What did you do,?
 
Sonja owned up , especially after I found out how impromptu our children were shuttled off to Oma and Opa's on short notice; she said she wasn't giving up Kevin her 18 year old co worker and if I wanted to save our marriage I had to give her some space
 
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Yes. This is how it all started for me.

8 years into our marriage my wife confessed that she had a 5 month affair with a guy who “had a huge cock” while we were engaged. Up until the wedding and then she stopped.

Explained why sec for us basically stopped around that time.
Do t you wonder why the fuck they married us ?
 
Sonja married me for financial security and I am average looking; Sonja is above average looking and wanted a young stud that had a combination of animal stamina and anability to make soft love; as for why they married us we filled one component HubbyJohn
 
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She loved feeding me cum in our first few years , I let her bc I could not help but love it. The faces she would make , the way she came screaming . Eventually I told her I knew she was doing it. Then I told her she made me a cuckold it took 4 years bd she understand what a cuckold was and wanted . Now she feeds me cummm every week . Listen to her humilate me
 
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So, when I was 20 I finally had my first gf. We met in a german chatting system, she was playfull and charming and kind of available, hope this doesn't sound too bad, but I was horny, a teenager and I really liked her. At that time we were both looking for partners and she made a move on me after being rejected by another guy (before we both didn't make any moves). She told me that on the way back from him she finally made up her mind and realized that she is in love with me and not him. I didn't know the real story. The guy lived a few km away from me, 2-3 cities, but very close to where I started my new hobby and where I had to be nearly every saturday to make it into the club.

Yeah, so this is backstory and also ahead, let's start at the beginning. As I said, my gf was very playful and we were horny all the time, so most of the time when we chattet we also masturbated and had cybersex, then after some time we met and I had sex for the first time (I doubt that it was good for her), this is how our relationship started.
She a few weeks later told me that she had her first with a guy 1y ago, when she was 17, but they didn't stay together, she had another guy and then a FWB situation with another guy, the guy who rejected her. She told me that he was the best she had and she particularly liked to blow him or do other stuff for him.

Fast forward a few months, my then gf came over on the weekends and I had to stay a few hours on the flying field and have my lessons. She didn't want to wait and the guy lived near, so once we arrived there he would come over with his car, get my gf, "drive around and talk" as she said.
Her and my fantasies were always cuckold fantasies or other groupsex, I really favoured the image of my gf getting dicked down by an experienced guy ...

I never found out of they had sex when they met, but my spider sensors tell me that it had to be the case.
 
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So, when I was 20 I finally had my first gf. We met in a german chatting system, she was playfull and charming and kind of available, hope this doesn't sound too bad, but I was horny, a teenager and I really liked her. At that time we were both looking for partners and she made a move on me after being rejected by another guy (before we both didn't make any moves). She told me that on the way back from him she finally made up her mind and realized that she is in love with me and not him. I didn't know the real story. The guy lived a few km away from me, 2-3 cities, but very close to where I started my new hobby and where I had to be nearly every saturday to make it into the club.

Yeah, so this is backstory and also ahead, let's start at the beginning. As I said, my gf was very playful and we were horny all the time, so most of the time when we chattet we also masturbated and had cybersex, then after some time we met and I had sex for the first time (I doubt that it was good for her), this is how our relationship started.
She a few weeks later told me that she had her first with a guy 1y ago, when she was 17, but they didn't stay together, she had another guy and then a FWB situation with another guy, the guy who rejected her. She told me that he was the best she had and she particularly liked to blow him or do other stuff for him.

Fast forward a few months, my then gf came over on the weekends and I had to stay a few hours on the flying field and have my lessons. She didn't want to wait and the guy lived near, so once we arrived there he would come over with his car, get my gf, "drive around and talk" as she said.
Her and my fantasies were always cuckold fantasies or other groupsex, I really favoured the image of my gf getting dicked down by an experienced guy ...

I never found out of they had sex when they met, but my spider sensors tell me that it had to be the case.
I think she definitely fucked him ,👍
 
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Twice. The first time wasn’t much though, just a lot of making out and she let him grope her. But with her boss a few years later, one full year of sucking, fucking, and cucking. Had they told me when it happened instead of way after, I may have asked for it to continue
 
I think she definitely fucked him ,👍
Yes, it had to be like that.
We had problems with our sex life. I didn't like oral sex like he did, she never once was able to finish me with oral, not like him where it was super easy for her and other stuff. She flat out told me that he was the best she ever had (she had 3 up to that moment).
I don't like sucking too hard but with him she could suck like a hover and he didn't mind (she was not skillfull, just trying to suck as hard as possible from the get go). He didn't mind, he was circumcised, so he could tolerate much more forceful sucking and last longer, definitly a plus for her.

to be honest, if she would have told me and we had our time afterwards with bonding and stuff, I wouldn't have minded her fuck him while I was at my hobby place. The whole time we were together we fantasized about her getting railed by multiple guys and me watching her, so it would have fitted in our fantasy play. Maybe she didn't think that I would have accepted the reality, or maybe they just talked, idk ... We don't have any contact, it's >20y ago, so I don't really care.
I was always fantasizing about promiscuous activity, about kink ... but after my first relationship (with her) it kind of took over everything else.

The first relationship you are more likely to tolerate anything just to not feel alone, she very skillfully told me that I can be lucky to have her, that no one else would want me, she made fun of me when we were in public ... overall she was a VERY shitty girlfriend and I stayed with her for SOOO much longer than needed ....

I think today we would call it heavy gaslighting and mobbing, what she did to me ... very very toxic relationship
 
Yes, it had to be like that.
We had problems with our sex life. I didn't like oral sex like he did, she never once was able to finish me with oral, not like him where it was super easy for her and other stuff. She flat out told me that he was the best she ever had (she had 3 up to that moment).
I don't like sucking too hard but with him she could suck like a hover and he didn't mind (she was not skillfull, just trying to suck as hard as possible from the get go). He didn't mind, he was circumcised, so he could tolerate much more forceful sucking and last longer, definitly a plus for her.

to be honest, if she would have told me and we had our time afterwards with bonding and stuff, I wouldn't have minded her fuck him while I was at my hobby place. The whole time we were together we fantasized about her getting railed by multiple guys and me watching her, so it would have fitted in our fantasy play. Maybe she didn't think that I would have accepted the reality, or maybe they just talked, idk ... We don't have any contact, it's >20y ago, so I don't really care.
I was always fantasizing about promiscuous activity, about kink ... but after my first relationship (with her) it kind of took over everything else.

The first relationship you are more likely to tolerate anything just to not feel alone, she very skillfully told me that I can be lucky to have her, that no one else would want me, she made fun of me when we were in public ... overall she was a VERY shitty girlfriend and I stayed with her for SOOO much longer than needed ....

I think today we would call it heavy gaslighting and mobbing, what she did to me ... very very toxic relationship
I'm glad you are out of it mate,👍
 
When my wife and I were first dating, I mentioned how hot she’d look in a corset… she went ought and bought one and surprised me with it. A few weeks later I found out (through some online sleuthing) that she was still with her “ex,” and I told her she needed to choose between us. She ended up with me obviously, but I never did see that corset again… which leads me to believe she wore it for him too 😁photo.jpeg
 
When my wife and I were first dating, I mentioned how hot she’d look in a corset… she went ought and bought one and surprised me with it. A few weeks later I found out (through some online sleuthing) that she was still with her “ex,” and I told her she needed to choose between us. She ended up with me obviously, but I never did see that corset again… which leads me to believe she wore it for him too 😁View attachment 2458030
Why wouldn't she she probably wanted to get her moneys worth out of it.
 
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