Going on vacation without kids and thinking this is a good time to start

[clearr12]

Hello all. Bit of a backstory. My wife and I are both 40. She’s used to really enjoy sex, but has really become kind of a prude after having our kid. My wife currently doesn’t know I’m a wannabe cuck. I’ve dropped a few hint here and there, but she’s never really been responsive.

We are going on a week long trip to Hawaii in 3 weeks and I think now’s a good time to start really trying to begin an attempt to get her out of her shell. I don’t think setting up a bull or trying for a threesome would be a realistic scenario, but I want to try a few small things like watch some bbc porn together or get some toys bigger than me.

I’d love some info and ideas. Feel free to DM me.

 

[clearr12]

Planning on getting her some sexy swim suits

 

[Charmingdevil78]

Bring her to Europe..!

 

[clearr12]

Bring her to Europe..!

Would love too. Where do you suggest?

 

[Tallboy]

Planning on getting her some sexy swim suits

Such a turn on seeing other men on the beach watch your wife in a sexy swimsuit. A thin wet bikini with hard nipples poking out.

 

[clearr12]

Such a turn on seeing other men on the beach watch your wife in a sexy swimsuit. A thin wet bikini with hard nipples poking out.

I’m very excited for it.

 

[HereToShareHer]

Hello all. Bit of a backstory. My wife and I are both 40. She’s used to really enjoy sex, but has really become kind of a prude after having our kid. My wife currently doesn’t know I’m a wannabe cuck. I’ve dropped a few hint here and there, but she’s never really been responsive.

We are going on a week long trip to Hawaii in 3 weeks and I think now’s a good time to start really trying to begin an attempt to get her out of her shell. I don’t think setting up a bull or trying for a threesome would be a realistic scenario, but I want to try a few small things like watch some bbc porn together or get some toys bigger than me.

I’d love some info and ideas. Feel free to DM me.

Feel her out. If you find a deserted beach, see if she'll try going topless. If she's not even willing to do that on a deserted beach, well... You've got your work cut out for you

 

[clearr12]

Feel her out. If you find a deserted beach, see if she'll try going topless. If she's not even willing to do that on a deserted beach, well... You've got your work cut out for you

Definitely. There is a topless beach on the island so I’ll see if she wants to be adventurous

 

[Tjmill]

Hawaii is the greatest place to do this. My wife was totally into it after we got there.

 

[TheDrkKnight]

In the same situation as you. Have dropped hints but have yet to flat out bring it up. However, my wife tends to get more freaky when on vacation after a few drinks so maybe try that!

 

[floridabill]

Would love too. Where do you suggest?

We go to hedonism in Jamaica wife loves it

 

[clearr12]

We go to hedonism in Jamaica wife loves it

Would love to get to that point but right now she’s not in for a swingers resort

 

[Hwcouple702]

Try a nudist place, Hidden Beach south of Cancun. It's a nice resort, fun and certainly, although it's not a "swingers" place, you could probably find that sort of action if she wanted. After a few days, if she takes to it, you could get a day pass for one of the Desire resorts...RM probably easiest.

 

[toolman2c]

Try a nudist place, Hidden Beach south of Cancun. It's a nice resort, fun and certainly, although it's not a "swingers" place, you could probably find that sort of action if she wanted. After a few days, if she takes to it, you could get a day pass for one of the Desire resorts...RM probably easiest.

Sounds like very good advice, i love the way you think, and are willing to help others,