Getting wife on the right track

[2CuriososMX]

It's been a while since I posted, but if you had read my posts probably you will know the bias by now.

So a few days back my wife invited friend of hers to a small theater show. I know that in the show there is a male stripper, good body, not so well endowed (tell you later), how I know this? Well we went to see the show together a few months back for the first time and we saw it together, I know for a fact that she payed very close attention to the male stripper, she had this smile every time he was on stage with nothing but this small speedo, knowing she was wet for him made me so horny, we ended the night having good sex.

So my naughty wife, talked about the show for weeks (i was turned on every time), until some other night she told me she invited a friend of her to see the show together, (we have good communication) I had stuff to do, so they went by themselves, when the night was over she came back, she told me the male stripper danced for her friend, he gave her friend a small lap dance (she had this look on her face of: "wished that was me") so I know she ate the guy with her eyes, because she mentioned how good body he had, but his cock was kinda small, (felt somehow turned on by the fact she desires another man and checks him from top to bottom). To end up that night she asked for a small lap dance from me and we fucked really nice.

But here is the twist i know she gets wet for seeing male strippers and getting lap dances from them, haven't really told her the truth, but there is a ladies night coming soon, she knows I'm taking her to a surprise, but does not know the exact details, I want her to relax, be herself and enjoy as much of the show, probably getting her a few private lap dances from the male strippers.

I have a few questions about how to set up the scenario:

How should I prepare her mentally?
How should I disclose the details of the night?
How she should dress for the occasion?
I'll be glad to answer questions and discuss details.

 

[Redoak352]

Oh there’s so much here. You’re on the cusp of opening her up to embracing and enjoying it. Feel free to DM and chat more. We’ve just been through all of this.

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

It's been a while since I posted, but if you had read my posts probably you will know the bias by now.

So a few days back my wife invited friend of hers to a small theater show. I know that in the show there is a male stripper, good body, not so well endowed (tell you later), how I know this? Well we went to see the show together a few months back for the first time and we saw it together, I know for a fact that she payed very close attention to the male stripper, she had this smile every time he was on stage with nothing but this small speedo, knowing she was wet for him made me so horny, we ended the night having good sex.

So my naughty wife, talked about the show for weeks (i was turned on every time), until some other night she told me she invited a friend of her to see the show together, (we have good communication) I had stuff to do, so they went by themselves, when the night was over she came back, she told me the male stripper danced for her friend, he gave her friend a small lap dance (she had this look on her face of: "wished that was me") so I know she ate the guy with her eyes, because she mentioned how good body he had, but his cock was kinda small, (felt somehow turned on by the fact she desires another man and checks him from top to bottom). To end up that night she asked for a small lap dance from me and we fucked really nice.

But here is the twist i know she gets wet for seeing male strippers and getting lap dances from them, haven't really told her the truth, but there is a ladies night coming soon, she knows I'm taking her to a surprise, but does not know the exact details, I want her to relax, be herself and enjoy as much of the show, probably getting her a few private lap dances from the male strippers.

I have a few questions about how to set up the scenario:

How should I prepare her mentally?
How should I disclose the details of the night?
How she should dress for the occasion?
I'll be glad to answer questions and discuss details.

A few days before, mention casually how excited you are about their upcoming night, and the fun you’ll have together. Then before the event, suggest she take some time for herself — a spa day, or a relaxing bath. You want to help her unwind.

Make vague hints about the night without giving much away. Say things like “you’re going to love the atmosphere” or “this is something a little different for us.” Create a sense of intrigue.

When it’s time for some details, keep it light. You want a playfully and fun tone. Try something like “remember that show and X [girlfriend] enjoyed? This is similar but even more exciting!”

Emphasize the overall experience not the specifics. This is about having a great time together and enjoying the entertainment.

If she seems curious or excited, maybe add a little more information. If she is hesitant, reassure her. Say that it’s all in good fun.

Suggest something playful and a bit glamorous—a nice dress or a stylish top and fitted jeans. You want her to feel confident and attractive.

She should wear comfortable shoes as she’ll be sitting for a while. Especially if you’ll be walking a way, she’ll need that.

Encourage her to wear fun accessories that match her outfit, like statement earrings or a clutch, for a touch of excitement and flair.

Do keep us posted!

 

[FreeUseMex]

Show her porn of married women sucking and being
fucked by male strippers. Quickest and easiest way to turn her into a slut wife.

 

[2CuriososMX]

A small update after a long time, I've spoke with my wife about it I went straight to the point, that Im taking her to a male stripper show.
She got excited about it, told her that during that night I'll be with her and be just "a friend" that she could relax and enjoy. I joked about dressing her with a small dress, but she also joked about being danced, touching or kissed.
I'll probably now just set the mood before we go with some male stripper and females porn, any recommendations?

 

[Redoak352]

Good one. Make sure she knows how good she looks while she’s getting ready, how you know all the dancers are going to pick her out of the crowd and hope they’re the one to get a special dance for her

 

[Ray Dachamp]

Make SURE ur ready for this.
It often happens that hubby feels differently when wife is taking a big cock deep....
and enjoying it.

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

A small update after a long time, I've spoke with my wife about it I went straight to the point, that Im taking her to a male stripper show.
She got excited about it, told her that during that night I'll be with her and be just "a friend" that she could relax and enjoy. I joked about dressing her with a small dress, but she also joked about being danced, touching or kissed.
I'll probably now just set the mood before we go with some male stripper and females porn, any recommendations?

Here’s a thought:

Suggest that your wife invite her girlfriend along again. It’s likely they’d talk about this for several weeks. This can help normalize the behavior.

Make some inquiries. Look around for another venue. Find a nice place to go occasionally. M Aubrey go every 3 months instead of 6 months.

 

[TheGermanEngine]

I don't agree to my predecessor. Don't bring the friend.

Let's summarize:
- Wife likes the "stripper" thing
- After first experience, where she learned that it turns her own, she went with her female friend, and not with her husband. Why: getting supported by her friend either for feeling more secure when doing something "forbidden" and to blow away her moral doubts about getting a lapdance, because the female friend got a lapdance and she's o.k. with that.

- Now she is looking forward to go with hubby again. Main issue to solve: moral doubts / last resitance.
1) In case the female friend will also join, the wife gonna be like "If I let something happen while husband watching, she might think strange things about our marriage"
2) If you go without the female friend, she will be in constant "overthinking" mode, uf hubby is really o.k. with that and what is allowed and what not.

I strongly recommend to talk to her a few days before you go there and make her feel comfortable with the situation.

You might say something that you would like to see her happy and getting attention from the strippers not because you're gay or don't love her or want her to be a slut, but you love her for being kinky and you would be proud to have such an attractive wife etc. You should also emphasize that you're not going to blame her for anything.

And most important agree on a certain stop sign if you or she feels uncomfortable. That will give her the necessary security to enter unkown terrain, because she knows where the emergency exit is.