Getting a cage?
- Thread starter zekethegeek
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Are you asking if I told her it would make her a better person if she tried the Hotwife lifestyle? No, I never used that excuse. I think it was just words of encouragement she came up with.
No accusations. Some guys say that. Do you think this is for their entertainment and enjoyment for you to suffer a little.
I suspect so. It certainly is probable. Whether it is both of them or just her, idk. Most likely just her idea as he doesn't get into what she gets me to do or how she conducts herself with me.
She is much more confident, much more independent, much more in charge of her own life and what she does. We have grown closer marriage wise in every way while I'm relieved of the actual providing sex duties. She gets that from her lover now although I'm not completely cut off. They both enjoy each other because they get the sex without the commitment to each other. That part they enjoy.
They do, she does, and we have an apartment set up for those encounters so as to keep him away from our house. Those are our boundaries. Mostly I let her go and stay behind now. But, when I do watch, the extent I'm involved is just sit back and watch, even kissing her on the lips and holding her hand while she is getting fucked, but I'm always clothed during that time. That is the tent of my involvement.
She is not in here as much, that's true. More because she is busier these days and wants to find the right balance in all things. She still reads stuff on here. She doesn't mind hearing from everybody at all. Sometimes she has me look to see if she has messages on her account as well and to let her know. Also, half the time I'm on (but not right now) she is on here with me when I'm on my account surfing this site.
Yes, I'll have to start posting them on their own thread. I'm not sure they are very good stories, but I will try to think of some and post them separately.
I always want to find a hook beyond "they had sex" something that might make a little story interesting.
Possibly building your acceptance to the nature of your role as a sub?
I was in a sex shop last week and asked the shop assistant about the cages - I had to ask if they had any smaller ones. She opened up the display and picked one, saying it was the smallest they had. I told her it was no use as my dick would ony go about a third of the way into the cage (when soft). She looked at me and asked " are you a sissy?", to which I replied "yes". We then had a 5 min conversation about where I might get a micro cage. I left the shop part humiliated and part buzzing at the same time.
