How it all started out. Tegan and I have been together 16 years she is now 34 and I am 39, Tegan is of Jamaican heritage , I am mixed race. Mums white English my dad is from Barbados originally. I got with Tegan when she was 17, she had 3 guys before me all her own and was quite inexperienced. After a while of been together I started to enjoy the thought of her with her exes or other guys but I thought it was weird. I’m not into humiliation or anything just more the sense of her enjoying another man. I knew another girl who had also been with Tegan’s ex before me. And she said he was quite big which started off an interest as Tegan is naturally tight always has been and still is now. After some time passed one time when we was watching a porn film I waited until she was into it and then plucked up the courage and asked ‘do you think you could handle that guy ‘, she stunned me by saying she had bigger. From then on it was like wow how did she manage as I am 6inch max. So at the start I didn’t want to say about the fantasy , so I went another route. Whenever she used to go to clubs with her friends when she came home I used to ask her to make a story about herself and another girl. Which is meant to be the usual fantasy that all guys want. After some time I changed it and asked her to make up a story about her and a guy. Which she did. Then few months later she was a bit drunk so I thought I would chance it and ask her to tell me a real story about a time with an ex. She did but obviously it wasn’t the best at the time as it was different. Now we are at a stage where sometimes if she tell a story she will moan or say his name when she cums. She has made out with 2 guys in this time just kissing and touching and such. She always stated nobody local and nobody we know which am good with. If she goes to clubs out of town with her friends and there’s a guy she likes and vice verse she will grind her ass on him and tease and get him hard and tell me when she gets home. We have done it in various steps not planned it’s just how it has worked out