Sure those type of things will increase your cucks anxiety level thus making the experience more rewarding for him, but I would tread lightly with this kind of stuff at first. Even though he says this is what he wants, being cuckolded in reality is much different than the fantasy he has going in his head. You should expect him to be a little moody over the next few days while he processes what he's seen. You may as well have some feelings of guilt and shame. This type of thing for you will soon pass. You most likely will soon be looking for your next play date. I suggest you take your time and develop your cuck slowly. He will be experiencing emotions he never new existed. Ensure he knows he's your number one, and these other guys are just dicks to you. You two need to talk all the time. If you sense he has an issue talk it out, and never let an issue fester. If you don't the results can be devastating to your marriage. Living the hotwife/cuck lifestyle can be a lot of fun. But, dealing with a first time cuck hubby can be a lot of work. Definitely worth it in the long run if you can talk things out and negotiate all the bumps in the road. I have always said the journey is more fun than the destination. Developing his angst the days before a play date will help get him in the proper mind set to see you with another man. My wife will often tell me a few days before she can't wait to suck her new lovers cock and feel him inside her body. She'll let me read some of the steamy texts she's had with him through out the week. You might want to tease and deny him a few days before your play date. You should refrain from letting him cum. I know it sounds mean especially if you've been teasing him. But cucks like that kind of thing. Save your sex for after your play date and let him "reclaim" you. You will find it to be some of the best sex you've ever had with your husband. good luck!