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xscpl
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yeah that why I let my wife to try new cocks too, I had more than 20 pussy in my life but she just had 2, why should she spend her life with just 2 cocks, you only live once 😉
seemein
Male
You don't necessarily need to put your foot down, but the 2 of you need to establish the basic parameters of your sport fucking adventures together. Just because your girl wants to fuck other men, and you encourage her doesn't automatically make you a cuck. My wife and I enjoy a Stag/Vixen type of this lifestyle, as do many other couples on this site. There is no emotional attachment in our version of this, and we/she don't fool with any ex's or anybody from regular life. Pretty clean and simple. Just enjoy!
So you don't have to be cuckolded. There are differences in sharing your wife, the Vixen/Stag lifestyle and cuckolding. Unless you are into the aspects of cuckolding, I would suggest taking a look at the others I listed. There doesn't have to be a humiliation aspect to it.
The others offer MFM 3some opportunities and allowing you to watch without humiliation.
manotick
Male
Before my wife and I were married we agreed given our jobs and would spend a lot of time travelling that sexual opportunities might arise. We gave each other the green light to go ahead but only on condition that (a) the sex was safe; (b) we told each other in advance or right after about it; and (c) there would be no lying or cheating. And for our first few years we both had encounters....but after about 5 years I found less interest in getting pussy than watching or hearing about her being fucked. Why that happened I don't know, but I happily fell into a submissive cuck role and have relished it ever since. And she gets a lot of great orgasms.
69jd69
Male
Not intending to be pedantic, if she fucks another guy, you are, by definition, a cuckold. Look it up in a traditional dictionary (vs the made-up Urban Dictionary). Within the "lifestyle" we define ourselves more liberally.
These are my definitions but I think they ring true for most...
As I said, these are my definitions that I have developed from years of observation. Ultimately though, we each define this experience for ourselves and there is no right or wrong, just what floats your boat.
And I agree with @JaknSuz. If you don't want to fall into the submissive cuckold roll, I suggest you best figure out the ground rules for her sport fucking before she does it.
Has she had another man since you have been together? If not, be prepared for a real gut punch once she does. It is the most intensely erotic experience I've ever had but it's not for everyone. A lot of guys can't handle their wife/gf getting it from another guy, even if they think that's what they want.
These are my definitions but I think they ring true for most...
- A cuck generally refers to a guy that is submissive to the wife and her needs. Some cucks are considered sissies as they tend to take on a much more feminized role, sometimes dressing in female attire, almost always sucking, cleaning up both wife and bull, sometimes providing another hole.
- A hotwife is a wife who sport fucks with the knowledge and consent of her husband. She may do it without telling him when she does it but he knows she is going to fuck and is good with it.
- A stag is a cuckold (remember, if she fucks others, he's a cuckold by definition) but who isn't into the submissive aspects. His partner is usually considered a vixen and they work together as a team, planning and enjoying her adventures. This is probably the relationship most in line with a traditional marriage, with the added benefit that she gets laid outside the marriage and they both get to enjoy the experience. Some stags don't engage in any male - male contact and don't come in contact with the bulls semen except to claim sloppy seconds. Others are fine with male - male (think heteroflexible) and may suck or do clean up duties but on their terms, not because they are being told to do it. Just from what I've read here, I think a large number of stags actually are on the heteroflexible side, confident in themselves and not concerned with societal conventions.
- Bull - the man that is not her husband that has sex with the married wife. Some, like @Lynnandhubby further define the bull as their primary, the guy for which they will do anything asked. Contrast that with just your average fuck the wife plays with but there is not special connection.
As I said, these are my definitions that I have developed from years of observation. Ultimately though, we each define this experience for ourselves and there is no right or wrong, just what floats your boat.
And I agree with @JaknSuz. If you don't want to fall into the submissive cuckold roll, I suggest you best figure out the ground rules for her sport fucking before she does it.
Has she had another man since you have been together? If not, be prepared for a real gut punch once she does. It is the most intensely erotic experience I've ever had but it's not for everyone. A lot of guys can't handle their wife/gf getting it from another guy, even if they think that's what they want.
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