when my wife did this we didnt comunicate it. she just told me shell stop if she feels uncomfortable. she lay on the edge of the bed, head over the end and could actually SEE his cock going all the way in her throat. he eventually cum down it (she wont let me) and she swallowed. Talked briefly afterwards on our own and asked why? She just told me that i cant do that with her or be rough enough cause im too much of a gentleman with her (love her) and after all these years she needs a bit of change, roughness to keep our sex alive. Do other women feel this way???