First time ever tomorrow! Any advice please!!

[TandA19]

After years of making my feelings known on cuckolding and how turned on it makes me my wife surprised me by actually finding someone she was willing to dip our toe in with.

It will be oral only tomorrow as she eases in and we are both extremely anxious and nervous. Is this normal for first time!?

The bull has been nothing but respectful and patient during arranging this and went out of his way to make sure he has everything covered such as our limits, things that are a turn off, boundaries, what we expect of him and and preferences.

That has really helped but still gives us flutters in the stomach when thinking about how it will go tomorrow!

We are hosting at our house. The timing is the most unexpected for me because my wife is 6 months pregnant but that to me adds extra an extra kink and the bull really loves the idea of the bump etc

So really what I’m asking is what can we expect from tomorrow, how best to deal with the aftermath and any tips to make it as good an experience for us both as possible??

Thank you 🙂

 

[dickhurtz]

well, how'd it go?

 

[Shadowstalker]

After years of making my feelings known on cuckolding and how turned on it makes me my wife surprised me by actually finding someone she was willing to dip our toe in with.

It will be oral only tomorrow as she eases in and we are both extremely anxious and nervous. Is this normal for first time!?

The bull has been nothing but respectful and patient during arranging this and went out of his way to make sure he has everything covered such as our limits, things that are a turn off, boundaries, what we expect of him and and preferences.

That has really helped but still gives us flutters in the stomach when thinking about how it will go tomorrow!

We are hosting at our house. The timing is the most unexpected for me because my wife is 6 months pregnant but that to me adds extra an extra kink and the bull really loves the idea of the bump etc

So really what I’m asking is what can we expect from tomorrow, how best to deal with the aftermath and any tips to make it as good an experience for us both as possible??

Thank you 🙂

Any updates?

 

[Biguy916]

The first time is always both exciting and nerve racking but as long as both of you are excited about going ahead with your plans you will certainly have a great time together
Will it be just the bull and your wife performing oral sex or will you be expected to perform oral sex on the bull?

 

[TandA19]

UPDATE: The “bull” was a complete time waster and ghosted us on the day. Left the group WhatsApp chat and blocked us! Talked a great game about being respectful and experienced but neither of those seemed true in the end. Unfortunately after long trying to get to this point, the fact he only used us for basically wank material has completely shut down looking for someone else. So disappointing but unless my wife is fully on board I don’t want to push it.

 

[ChubbyGermany]

UPDATE: The “bull” was a complete time waster and ghosted us on the day. Left the group WhatsApp chat and blocked us! Talked a great game about being respectful and experienced but neither of those seemed true in the end. Unfortunately after long trying to get to this point, the fact he only used us for basically wank material has completely shut down looking for someone else. So disappointing but unless my wife is fully on board I don’t want to push it.

Sorry for you but still it is a good example that also by far not all bulls have (literally speaking) the balls to do it. There are surely a lot of pretenders. Of course better luck for you next time 🙂

 

[Biguy916]

The majority of pretenders are here asking for photos and you should ignore them completely

 

[Diver_35]

I know of a several couples that started out "ok we will try but oral only". When they all got on the bed nude and the oral started it seems that as the wife was sucking hubby and the bull was licking her she got really into it. When the bull started kissing his way up to her breasts while still between her legs she just spread wider and when his cock touched her pussy she didn't try and stop. On at least one she reached down and offered guidance. TandA19 keep trying and with the worry about pregnancy not there if it should be a great first time.

 

[cuck52]

After years of making my feelings known on cuckolding and how turned on it makes me my wife surprised me by actually finding someone she was willing to dip our toe in with.

It will be oral only tomorrow as she eases in and we are both extremely anxious and nervous. Is this normal for first time!?

The bull has been nothing but respectful and patient during arranging this and went out of his way to make sure he has everything covered such as our limits, things that are a turn off, boundaries, what we expect of him and and preferences.

That has really helped but still gives us flutters in the stomach when thinking about how it will go tomorrow!

We are hosting at our house. The timing is the most unexpected for me because my wife is 6 months pregnant but that to me adds extra an extra kink and the bull really loves the idea of the bump etc

So really what I’m asking is what can we expect from tomorrow, how best to deal with the aftermath and any tips to make it as good an experience for us both as possible??

Thank you 🙂

Yes she needs to humiliate and embarrass you as much as possible...

 

[Ksmith]

It would have been better to wait at home after meeting bull. it worked for me that way I wouldn't expect her to try it with the hubby close by or at all.

 

[sinsnaps]

The majority of pretenders are here asking for photos and you should ignore them completely

I disagreed. I've shared my wife with around 50 men. The ones I met on sites like this show up about 50% of the time (but there have been fewer of them)/ The ones I found on Craigslist and the like... most of those do not show. About one in five. Sometimes worse odds than that.

 

[Phun Times 727]

We found sites to be too weird. we used the good old fashioned wife goes out with a friend, waits for a guy to hit on her and says yes to the one she would want to be with. In this case she slept with him a couple times before dropping the bomb about being married and husband wants it etc. Now we are all friends and spend a lot of time with him.

 

[toolman2c]

UPDATE: The “bull” was a complete time waster and ghosted us on the day. Left the group WhatsApp chat and blocked us! Talked a great game about being respectful and experienced but neither of those seemed true in the end. Unfortunately after long trying to get to this point, the fact he only used us for basically wank material has completely shut down looking for someone else. So disappointing but unless my wife is fully on board I don’t want to push it.

Just remind her and urself that your desires are still there deep down, DO try again, i think theres a lot of eXciting Taboo things U2 will eXplore in future,, block this bad experience out and open ur minds to making a few fantasies come true.. Good Luck... Id like to chat in DM soon. TY for bravely posting,,

 

[thebeginner]

UPDATE: The “bull” was a complete time waster and ghosted us on the day. Left the group WhatsApp chat and blocked us! Talked a great game about being respectful and experienced but neither of those seemed true in the end. Unfortunately after long trying to get to this point, the fact he only used us for basically wank material has completely shut down looking for someone else. So disappointing but unless my wife is fully on board I don’t want to push it.

Sorry to hear that. Having the bull ghost you, well, is more common than you think. If you've been following many of the posts on this forum you may have concluded that it's easy to find normal, respectful, confident bulls. It's not. That's because 80% of what you read here is fake. But all is not lost, you can find great bulls - it just takes a little bit of experience and work.

If you're like most cucks this deep desire to see your wife fucked by another is not going to just go away. It will return, again and again. And frankly, the fact your wife is down with it and willing to try is incredible. Most guys do not have such understanding and willing wives. Heck, the fact that she agreed means she has already started to cuck you. She's into it! You're 80% of the way there. That's a massive achievement!

Having someone ghost is a huge let-down. But I bet, the time leading up to it was a mind-blowing experience, and you guys were probably excited and fucking like rabbits. Take it for what it was - a fun part of an amazing journey.

The road to cuckolding/hotwifing is not always smooth and straight. There will be bumps in the road. It's always a learning experience, and half of the fun - at least when you look back. These disappointments are often opportunities to learn how to spot the fake wankers out there (ie: pic collectors). But if you keep looking you will find your bull.

 

[Letshavefun42]

UPDATE: The “bull” was a complete time waster and ghosted us on the day. Left the group WhatsApp chat and blocked us! Talked a great game about being respectful and experienced but neither of those seemed true in the end. Unfortunately after long trying to get to this point, the fact he only used us for basically wank material has completely shut down looking for someone else. So disappointing but unless my wife is fully on board I don’t want to push it.

Was up, I got you... Im a bull looking for Hot wife.
Dm me, let's if we can make that come true for her

 

[CONST65]

Sorry to hear that. Having the bull ghost you, well, is more common than you think. If you've been following many of the posts on this forum you may have concluded that it's easy to find normal, respectful, confident bulls. It's not. That's because 80% of what you read here is fake. But all is not lost, you can find great bulls - it just takes a little bit of experience and work.

If you're like most cucks this deep desire to see your wife fucked by another is not going to just go away. It will return, again and again. And frankly, the fact your wife is down with it and willing to try is incredible. Most guys do not have such understanding and willing wives. Heck, the fact that she agreed means she has already started to cuck you. She's into it! You're 80% of the way there. That's a massive achievement!

Having someone ghost is a huge let-down. But I bet, the time leading up to it was a mind-blowing experience, and you guys were probably excited and fucking like rabbits. Take it for what it was - a fun part of an amazing journey.

The road to cuckolding/hotwifing is not always smooth and straight. There will be bumps in the road. It's always a learning experience, and half of the fun - at least when you look back. These disappointments are often opportunities to learn how to spot the fake wankers out there (ie: pic collectors). But if you keep looking you will find your bull.

My hotwife hasxhad a few let downs but some of her best had been some what unexpected. We set things up at times as follows we go to an upscale club at or clise to a hotel Shes dresed to get noticed She sits on a ji table for two i sit ouy of sitebut where i can be seen if she needs me . Giys will at tines hit on her to buy her a drink or dance .If it all.works and if she likes a guy she will meet me discretely to talk then if him.and her are on board she wil go to a room with him.i stay at the bar
.She then texts me that she will be back shortly or fir ne to go home and pick her up.in the morning. SHE has meet one of her regulars tbat way ask me anything. BOB
.

 

[Happycouple]

UPDATE: The “bull” was a complete time waster and ghosted us on the day. Left the group WhatsApp chat and blocked us! Talked a great game about being respectful and experienced but neither of those seemed true in the end. Unfortunately after long trying to get to this point, the fact he only used us for basically wank material has completely shut down looking for someone else. So disappointing but unless my wife is fully on board I don’t want to push it.

Happened to us too right when we presented time date and location. He might’ve just used us for jacking off but we still talk about him when we fuck. she was so excited, nervous and horny from the attention and he was very hung and attractive, but knowing that it didn’t go wrong due to us makes it fun and hot. We’re just taking it easy and who knows what the future will present

 

[Hot4mywife]

UPDATE: The “bull” was a complete time waster and ghosted us on the day. Left the group WhatsApp chat and blocked us! Talked a great game about being respectful and experienced but neither of those seemed true in the end. Unfortunately after long trying to get to this point, the fact he only used us for basically wank material has completely shut down looking for someone else. So disappointing but unless my wife is fully on board I don’t want to push it.

That had happened to us as well. Wives should never take it personally. Using only males that are verified helps but doesn't eliminate this from happening. It's his loss.

 

[newschotwife]

That’s unfortunate and his loss. You look so sexy in your media that’s posted! Wish I lived closer to you.