We share many similar situations..wife met, for the second time, a young black lover. Wife wore short skirt, heels, and looked stunning..We met at motel and she took him to lunch in a 5 star restaurant to show him off..and her get some attention too. I went to a meeting and met them back at the hotel. Wife got out a pack of condoms she brought, and he told her those are too small. I mentioned a convenience store across the street, so they left together. She later told me they went in hand in hand, quite crowded with african americans, he told her to ask the check out girl where the condoms were, and went hand in hand with him..he loudly said "the magnum ones". She got some and together they checked out (she paid). Later, after he left the room, she told me he really needed the magnums. All fun ended a week later..we were in Vegas on vacation when his wife called..found wifes number on his phone..a hazard of this lifestyle..