First cuckold date

My wife is open to bbc cuckold but wants me to stay outside the room being able to listen but not see her. Im not sure if this is how I want her first time to be. Seeing her is what most excites me being her cuck. Anyone has experience with this. How should ai proceed from both bull and cuck perspective? Thanks
 
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My wife is open to bbc cuckold but wants me to stay outside the room being able to listen but not see her. Im not sure if this is how I want her first time to be. Seeing her is what most excites me being her cuck. Anyone has experience with this. How should ai proceed from both bull and cuck perspective? ThanksView attachment 2501428
If I understand correctly this is her first time cuckolding you. Also assuming her first time cuckolding anybody but not her first BBC so she may want a little bit of privacy so to speak with him just to get comfortable with the whole cuckolding perspective. She may not feel you are ready to see her responses to BBC as she already knows how she's going to respond and is slowly breaking you in so to speak by only letting you listen at first. Just make sure that she knows that as everybody gets more comfortable that you are going to want to be in the room and possibly having a very up close and personal View not from sitting in the chair in a corner
 
This is not about you. So many guys want their wives to do something exactly the way they say because that excites them. Your wife is a participant. She needs to be comfortable doing it. Let's face it, she IS the one doing it. She gets to call the shots. I suggest you take the pressure off her and let her proceed the way she is most comfortable. Then let it evolve.
I hate it when some talkative, gotta get in there husband is around. It ruins it for me which ruins it for her. A cuck doesn't have to be a submissive doormat, but he does need to remember the wife is doing the work. Many wives first few times are specifically to make the husband happy and they are nervous. I guarantee she hasn't told you all the reservations she may have about this dynamic. Let her proceed at her pace and be supportive.
 
If I understand correctly this is her first time cuckolding you. Also assuming her first time cuckolding anybody but not her first BBC so she may want a little bit of privacy so to speak with him just to get comfortable with the whole cuckolding perspective. She may not feel you are ready to see her responses to BBC as she already knows how she's going to respond and is slowly breaking you in so to speak by only letting you listen at first. Just make sure that she knows that as everybody gets more comfortable that you are going to want to be in the room and possibly having a very up close and personal View not from sitting in the chair in a corner
Yes it is the first time cuckolding. But not the first time she dates another man. For me it is the first step into a date and her wish was to be with a black experienced well endowed man. Her first sexual experiences was with a black man far before we got together and its not a secret she has a kink and sexual urge to have a date with a black man when entering the cuckold phase. She always seem to draw specific attention from black men and I have been told by black men the instantly see she is a bbc lover. She likes to wear a shirt with a "I love BCC" print on it when going out while wearing her weddingring aswell. I have some experienced contacts on here helping me getting comfortable and take off the edge telling me what to expect. Telling me how they would make her comfortable at first and get her well aroused before they wont hold back. Knowing that although they will be very dominant with her most guys state clear that in most of their encounters its the wife that takes a submissive approach making them even more dominant. It comforts me in a weird way knowing she is asking the bull how to act by being submissive either from being overwhelmed or just extremely aroused by him and the situation. I also was told as a cuck I should see it as a compliment, the harder she is pleased the harder the cuck gets his reward. Feel free to share your thoughts here or in a dm.. thanks for your reactions so far
 
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