First conversation, kind of...

[jwf114]

Ive been on this site for long time and anyone who has chatted with me knows the story.

I found this site looking for advice and other peoples stories of how they got started into this lifestyle. My wife is very conservative and its unlikely that there was ever any chance, but i enjoy the fantasy.

I have tried making subtle hints and things that didnt cross the line into fully committed to telling her. For the last year, i had essentially given up on the idea. The other day there was an interesting event tho.

We were home alone and having a great time together and making the most of it. We had been going for a good while and i told her i couldnt keep up and needed to bring in some help just as a joke. She whispered no but it seemed like her body responded to it. I said it again and again she said no but things seemed to keep getting more intense.

I didnt mention what the help was. It could have been toys(which we have and use) or anything. But it seems like she knew what i actually meant even if said jokingly.

The next day in text i decided to again mention needing help jokingly thru text. She said i didnt need any help and feeling bold i asked but what if i want some help. (Again i didnt say what kind of help)

She kind of ignored it but i pushed a little and she responded with what if i dont want you to have help? And why would you want help?

Im afraid i messed up here and kind of chickened out by just saying i was getting old and couldnt keep up but wanted her to be able to have fun.

So, is it all in my head or did she actually know what i meant and did her body respond? Did i mess up this chance ive been waiting on for so long? Or is it a first step down a long road?

I know that no one else can answer as they dont know us. I am interested in peoples thoughts tho.

 

[Yakamoz]

You are pushing it to much.
Best for now to let her know you ment the toys, you have them home already so it wont be very weird. Then just let it go for a while.

 

[Vincenzo]

Tell her you were referring to toys, but say what did you think I was talking about? See what she says. Tell her that she seemed to get excited you mentioned it

 

[jwf114]

Tell her you were referring to toys, but say what did you think I was talking about? See what she says. Tell her that she seemed to get excited you mentioned it

Thats sounds like a good idea. If i get the chance i might try that. She likely wouldnt say that she thought i meant bringing in another guy even if thats what she thought but who knows.

 

[Vincenzo]

Thats sounds like a good idea. If i get the chance i might try that. She likely wouldnt say that she thought i meant bringing in another guy even if thats what she thought but who knows.

Most likely not, but it kind of puts the ball in her hands. You can say when she seem to get it excited at the mentioning of help, you thought about it, and thought it might be hot as well 🤷🏻

 

[Satisfiedman]

If it isn’t a definite no, with only the slightest of chance, you got your work cut out for you, but doable. During sex is the time to introduce fantasies. If she responds, frank conversations need to be made with assurances of continued and growth in love. Remember also her mores’ concerning fidelity need to be overcome. I had a conservative wife, and once I confided my fantasies, it took about 3 yrs to overcome her inhibitions, but was well worth it.

 

[NEWBIEHotwife]

whoaaaaa, not so much that your are pushing it too fast, but that you are pushing it in the wrong way.
I'm here on this web site initially as a dare from my hubby who, like you had this crushing fantasy to share me with (his words) "a big thick cock".
Like your wife I couldnt wrap my vanilla head around that, so he got frustrated, and I was just confused.
It all changed when last year someone on this forum suggested a bunch of hotwife challenges that he got out of a HW guide. My hubby tried a couple challenges as a fun date night game and I was OK with trying out more. My hubby contacted this guy and he shared the book's name. We bought it and worked our way through a bunch of HW challenges that turned this into a fun game. It took a while for me to try the challenges near the back of the book, but none of them involved actually fucking strangers if I didnt want to. My hubby got to role play being the "stranger"... which was fun for both of us.
One challenge that really turned the corner for me was that I had to go to a "sex store" and buy a few toys, including the most realistic silicone dildo I could find. That was a big step for me.
Now I'm more comfortable with the concept of being a hotwife and see that my hubby isnt so weird for having this fantasy.
I seldom recommend things to people, but this book helped us. It's called THE FAITHFUL HOTWIFE. I forget the lady author but we found it on Amazon.
you can dm me if you want some more details.

 

[ftandhubby]

whoaaaaa, not so much that your are pushing it too fast, but that you are pushing it in the wrong way.
I'm here on this web site initially as a dare from my hubby who, like you had this crushing fantasy to share me with (his words) "a big thick cock".
Like your wife I couldnt wrap my vanilla head around that, so he got frustrated, and I was just confused.
It all changed when last year someone on this forum suggested a bunch of hotwife challenges that he got out of a HW guide. My hubby tried a couple challenges as a fun date night game and I was OK with trying out more. My hubby contacted this guy and he shared the book's name. We bought it and worked our way through a bunch of HW challenges that turned this into a fun game. It took a while for me to try the challenges near the back of the book, but none of them involved actually fucking strangers if I didnt want to. My hubby got to role play being the "stranger"... which was fun for both of us.
One challenge that really turned the corner for me was that I had to go to a "sex store" and buy a few toys, including the most realistic silicone dildo I could find. That was a big step for me.
Now I'm more comfortable with the concept of being a hotwife and see that my hubby isnt so weird for having this fantasy.
I seldom recommend things to people, but this book helped us. It's called THE FAITHFUL HOTWIFE. I forget the lady author but we found it on Amazon.
you can dm me if you want some more details.

Glad you have indulged your husbands fantasy. You can not overestimate how hot it is for your husband to think of you as a hot wife! I love that mine is one. Life is short! Go for it. I'm getting hard just thinking about the sites and sounds my wife makes when she's entertaining a friend she likes.

 

[NEWBIEHotwife]

Glad you have indulged your husbands fantasy. You can not overestimate how hot it is for your husband to think of you as a hot wife! I love that mine is one. Life is short! Go for it. I'm getting hard just thinking about the sites and sounds my wife makes when she's entertaining a friend she likes.

When I was trying to figure out this HW thing I did a lot of research on the internet and asked my hubby if he thought he was a stag or a cuck. Last year he didnt hesitate to say "stag". This year I have him saying "cuck". What about you?

 

[farmlandcouple]

When I was trying to figure out this HW thing I did a lot of research on the internet and asked my hubby if he thought he was a stag or a cuck. Last year he didnt hesitate to say "stag". This year I have him saying "cuck". What about you?

Our stories are similar. I’m just a brand new newb lol

 

[NEWBIEHotwife]

Our stories are similar. I’m just a brand new newb lol

newbie HW or cuck?

 

[farmlandcouple]

newbie HW or cuck?

HW. He talked me into trying this site to see how that goes. But that’s it lol

 

[jwf114]

Thanks again for the advice and replies.

 

[ftandhubby]

When I was trying to figure out this HW thing I did a lot of research on the internet and asked my hubby if he thought he was a stag or a cuck. Last year he didnt hesitate to say "stag". This year I have him saying "cuck". What about you?

I would say if you have to put a label on it more cuck. That said its been an evolution throughout our relationship. Early on I was her stud fuckbuddy and she'd come to my apt. when she needed more cock and she knew I'd enjoy her no matter how full she was with another guys cum. After we got married a fair amount of swinging and as we got older more and more mfm 3 somes as I enjoyed her getting off and being used more than fucking other woman. From there as her sexual appetite matured and grew she got really comfortable being a hotwife and I got off on her "making" me share her pussy. I don't care what turns her on, I just enjoy her getting off and sharing it with me. She fucked me last night grinding herself to a great orgasm telling me how much she wanted to fuck an old friend who had been flirting with her. Your husband just wants to see you the same way.

 

[kolakola6969]

When I was trying to figure out this HW thing I did a lot of research on the internet and asked my hubby if he thought he was a stag or a cuck. Last year he didnt hesitate to say "stag". This year I have him saying "cuck". What about you?

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