Briefly:
My life long fetish is the female form in nice fitting tight jeans, i gained this fetish aged about 14 and retain it to this day. Age doesnt matter to me i am not seeking to touch just to look.
She has played in heavy BDSM with two lovers for many years, heavy stuff and has enjoyed being strapped down and hooded enjoying Electro stim with probes inserted into her x 2 at he same time, she orgasms uncontrollably especially if in a breathing hood.
I like being permanently locked, would have willingly been castrated if it was possible, i have always liked being collared and especially for a change using a dog collar. I would love as dangerous as it is to wear a dog shock collar, she refuses however.
I like that i wear female tight jeans and underwear and she dresses me as she did when we first met when she was a teenager. Often in public we wear the same jeans just different sizes however i do like it that she likes wearing male clothes too. Thats kinky me in female, she in male clothing.
She also wears fully authentic genuine schoolgirl uniform as a treat for me.....in public, its not sexual to me just a sign of the "untouchable" the same is said for her wearing a Burka or head scafe and a full female muslim dress with only knickers and suspenders underneath.
We are both sexually very submissive yet away from sex both very dominant characters. We both like surrendering our sexuality and control, me to her and she to a more experienced lover.
With the exception of my jean fetish she has been the sexual driving forse in our relationship.
