Nothing wrong with that if that’s what gets you off, and everyone happy.we enjoy some mild humiliation but it’s just a small part of the whole dynamics of our sexual relationship. We share our experiences together and pushed our boundaries together taking the enjoyment for what it is, adults engaging in the most humanly act possible with the most important person in our lives, each other. I am average size I guess. 6 and bit when hard, I thought I was a bit of a stud over my life, never short of girlfriends and had no complaints, until we started meeting other men to spice things up, it soon became apparent to me that my ten minutes of furious foreplay, and five minutes of pumping and then at least half an hour before I was ready to go again, was in fact a very selfish and egotistical shortcoming in truth. Don’t get me wrong I have learnt over our years of watching my beautiful wife with lovers, and I have improved vastly in the foreplay and oral stakes, even managing to give Hayley orgasms from taking note and learning from some incredible nights we have shared. I wished I had the skills to write some of our adventures down but I am just too long winded👍