My wife has played and is 3 years into the lifestyle. The first year was full of trials and errors. From dating Sugar Daddys who cared more about nutting in her and also the young ones who used her to pass time and just get spent. She took a year off the lifestyle and swore she will never come back again. Until she got reconnected with an old acquaintance whom she also has plans on getting help from to help settle our mortgage.
This bf of hers is 10+years older and is married and have several kids, well endowed and mature who dont and wont play games because of his age and status.
Quite a cool guy as have we sat down together and have a few drinks on a few occasions. Were all on the same page when it comes to keeping it discreet. But we also both care about her wellbeing so its a true relationship in a sense that they wont leave each others family but maintain and grow emotionally and meet each others sexual needs.
When me and the mrs have arguments in particular, she calls on her bf to see if hes available and vents on him. She always ends up spreading her legs for him as she would if her bf comforts and try and calm her down, and she always comes home alot calmer and cooler. I love how this dynamic works between all of us. And from what she said, hes alot bigger, last longer and knows how to eat pussy. She never comes home not satisfied, always at least an orgasm so its a plus for me and our relationship. The thing is, I dont mind her bf fucking her better than I do, if she comes home all satisfied and back to business as usual, I know shes not frustrated, and what I lack, her bf fills in; literally. So its a win win situation for all of us.