Does it turn you on knowing your wife was flirting and fucking with other guys behind your back

I had this experience on and off first part of my marriage, although there's always that exciting side that another man has pleased your wife the lies over time began to create alot of trust issues on multiple levels. In my situation I believe my x was leading 2 seperate lives. Even though she had the freedom to be with others in the end trust overided any excitement in my case. I'm definitely for knowing either ahead of time or if a random encounter shortly thereafter. I hope this helps.
 
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Yes it's very hot, but also dangerous. My wife cheated with a Bull behind my back, and this was after he fucked her a few times in front of me. She even tried to have his baby behind my back. I respect his dominance and accept that my wife likes dominant men and gives him preference, that's my cuck life.
 
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It turn me on a lot. One of my ex, even having my permission, was fucking without telling me. I realised because I hacked her computer with a keylogger. Every thing she was typing, was sending to my email. I knowed when she was going to fuck and where. At the begining I felt awful, but in just a second it made me hard.
 
My wife worked in a bar and she got laid on a regular basis when l found out about one shag she had that opened up a Pandoras box of her sexual exploits and she told me about the guys she let fuck her it was so exciting that l encouraged her ....not that she needed encouraging from then on she told all from loosing her virginity at an early age to the present and although she is 13 years younger than me she was way more experienced and had loads of dick in her cunt and mouth and occasional anal,.....lam so glad she is a slut
 
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My wife is a natural flirt but she says she's told me about all the guys she's fucked.
On more than one occasion though something has come out in conversation years later and she says " oh I must have forgot to mention him, I thought I told you ".
I really do want her to have affairs and fuck behind my back.
Exactly the same for me!
 
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Of course this is a turn on, but I only get to know about ‘behind my back’ stuff when she tells me about it later. The real turn on is to see it for myself. I’ve not seen her have sex with her lover (I only get to see her afterwards), but I’ve seen her interact with him when they’ve met, say, in a hotel car park and then walked into reception and out of my sight. That’s a real turn on for sure. I’ve seen her dance with guys and flirt in bars etc too, again a real thrill.

Only a few days ago, she flirted outrageously and for quite a while with a black cop who stopped to say hello in a park. We were sitting on a park bench, he was standing and she made sure he could see down her top. He was in no hurry to go anywhere else and clearly knew the score. I’ve never seen her like that before and it made me realise just how sexually confident she has become.

On reflection, I should have cleared off for a while to allow her some space. But I was too taken by the moment and wasn’t thinking clearly enough. Pity. Opportunity lost, I reckon. Nevertheless, seeing her flirt like that was amazing.
 
I should add too that this whole thing started in the first place many years ago because she fucked a friend of mine, behind my back. It was after a party and I’m sure it was a one-off event. I found the evidence of this and although it initially concerned me (I don’t want to lose her), I soon realised that this was such a huge turn on and I wanted her to do it more.

I’ve never confronted her - or him - about it, but the evidence was plentiful and very clear and I am absolutely certain it happened. I still think about it and masturbate at the thought even now, many years on.
 
Does it turn you on knowing your wife was flirting with other guys behind your back or you caught her fucking a man without telling you?
To me it's even more exciting tbh xp
It is extremely exciting to know that she is not only showing interest in other men but they are showing interest in her.
 
Oh, I just feel the need to give the details of the evidence of her cheating now (because I’m so turned on just thinking about it).

My wife went out to a party. I really can’t recall why I didn’t go. But I didn’t and instead stayed home. She was dressed up and looking fantastic. Later in the evening, I got a text from a friend who was at the party to say that my wife was obviously having a really good time and attached a photo of her kissing another friend if mine. These two had been quite flirtatious with each other fir a while. I had no problem with the image, to be honest, but it did look like a proper passionate kiss.

I was in bed when she came home in the early hours of the morning. I woke at the sound of her coming in, even though she was obviously trying to be quiet. She was in the downstairs bathroom for absolutely ages before coming upstairs. This made me a bit suspicious, so I acted like I was asleep and watched in the darkness as she got into bed. I was a little surprised to see that when she took off her top she was no longer wearing a bra. She was definitely wearing one when she went out. Next she took off her trousers and then her panties too. This is unusual because she always sleeps in her panties.

Next morning, she told me she had to go to town urgently and disappeared in her own pretty quickly. I was most suspicious by this point (and getting quite turned on too), so I went to the laundry basket in the bedroom and found her panties from the night before. They were black silky ones and in the gusset was a large amount of what was obviously dried semen. I’ve never looked in her underwear like this before, so to make sure I rummaged through the basket and found all the other pairs. None had any such marks in them. But this wasn’t a mark, it was a large amount of cum.

I realised that not only had she fucked this guy, but she had let him cum inside her. I had a vasectomy years beforehand, so she was not on any birth control. The dash to town made sense, she needed a morning after pill.

A few days later, my friend came to the house for something I had arranged with him long before. My wife seemed keen to answer the door to him. There was a very obvious awkwardness between them, but not anything unpleasant. We are all stiill friends but I don’t think either of them know that I know that they fucked. I’ve even worked out where it most likely happened.

It turns me on still to think about it and even more so now that I’ve written it down. I’m glad I never confronted them with what I know. It has retained the cheating aspect of it, which is what still turns me on.