The only person I always use a condom with is my husband (since November 2012). With Lovers, I encourage them to go without, but if they insist its ok......but no where near as exciting for me. I have, ever since I started having affairs, hoped that I would "accidentally" get pregnant by a Lover. Some I even tried to get pregnant with. I use a diaphragm for birth control, but I am easily talked out of using it.
J (the wife)
J (the wife)