Hi- I'm glad you are fine with the questions. So After you most recent post I have several more! When you say ffm marriage, that means you and your wife are the ff's, and the 'bull' is the m? Is yours a marriage of 3 people, and you all live together communally? At your work site, do they believe you are another female employee? Also, as you obviously are living the lifestyle of a female, why not invest in breast implants? Would not the feeling and the illusion of your feminity be enhanced with 'real' breasts? I know it is a fairly expensive procedure but seems like a wothwhile investment for you and your wife. What do you mean by the bra being barely noticeable? It some form of padded bra? I would imagine have the feeling of heavy breasts would feel....womanly. Where are you located and ages? I know I've loaded you down this time!