I am so sorry I did not mean to be critical of your life style. I tend to come off that way. I know and enjoy that there are a many ways to be involved having sex with others and some of the best times are when they just happen, as was the case with your wife at employee function. What we have learned is it is almost impossible to plan the perfect sexual encounter, as the best usually happen on their own. You two are so lucky to have each other and to be so open
I do not think fucking a woman senseless is the point or goal, I have no interest in men like you only interested in your own desires and no interest in the woman enjoying the sexually enlightened event.
No offense taken. 😁 Wife and I are fine with open discussion, and understand that there's a plethora of ways to play and enjoy! My wife is a Midwestern girl and has always pretty much said it the way it is. She just prefered individual males she knew and felt more than a casual attraction to for regular sex in our home when possible. Otherwise, she had one guy about 200 miles away that she spent the night with every 3 or 4 weeks. In her words, this man was "the best sex I've ever had" and we both just loved the way she felt after spending the night with him and ...... in the next morning, especially if he was still there. Her relationship with him enhanced our sex in a multitude of ways.
I agree that it’s always great to be with someone you know and are comfortable with, as you mentioned, there so many options and variations, yes my favorite place to play is at home in my bed, or where ever we play, and with a regular guy it is almost always how we play, first time meets are usually at a hotel or club, and we’ve also met many fun guys n couples at clubs or parties, and if it was good then when we invite them to our home it is even better. She is a lucky woman to have a friend she goes to see who is amazing at sex, I’ve had a few, and always want more and more and more. I think you know what I mean.
I know.....and we both wish this guy lived closer - we'd have invited him to spend the night in our bed with her. We ready to give him some space in our bedroom closet to keep some clothes and who knows how deep and hot things would have gotten.
I like that, we’ve had a couple guys stay with us while getting settled in new place. A few years ago my husband gave one guy whom I was really into a key to the house, told him he was welcome anytime, just be respectful if we are in the middle of something.
