Do I have a chance?

[Possiblyso2025]

I’ve been enjoying this site and reading all the different perspectives. I’d like to proceed with dropping some hints to my wife that I’d like her to experience another man. We’ve been together for almost twenty years and I believe we have a great relationship. We’re both extremely busy so our sex life is about once a week. When we do get to enjoy each other, we both orgasm but I believe we both could use something extra. My stamina isn’t what it once was, with the exception for oral. She’s lovely, so I could give her oral for hours, seriously! I’m average size and I know she’d enjoy someone larger, girth specifiy, than I am, especially him having more stamina and being able to literally pound her.
Some details about her. She’s very pretty but I know she’d like to lose weight. In my opinion, she’s beautiful exactly the way she is. After children, she hasn’t been as comfortable with her body. She is an all around good person, doesn’t drink, doesn’t watch porn, doesn’t cuss. If you knew her, she’d be the last person you’d think would go for something like this. She’s only been with one other man besides me, she was married previously. But, she has surprised me with a few things. She enjoys riding my face to receive oral. In this position, she either ride my face until she has an orgasm, yes she’s a squirter, or she’ll slide down and mount me. She enjoys her ass played with while she rides me and it always helps her orgasm. A few times after riding me and both of us having an orgasm, she slide up over face to receive another oral stimulated orgasm.
My struggle is, how to present the idea of her being with another man. She doesn’t like dildos because she says they don’t feel real and she would be turned off watching porn.
Other things to consider, I was asked these questions on a different site.
Kids still at home? Yes, two teenagers
Does she work? Yes, full time.
Travel by herself or with girlfriends? No, but I do encourage it.
Do you share fantasies of any type? Not often, she’s typically quiet about it.
Is she playful? Sense of humor? She can be once she’s comfortable and has a good sarcastic sense of humor.
Assertive or dominant sexually? No, she’d rather me take charge. But, she isn’t shy about accepting oral, even to the point of stripping down and climbing on my face.
Does she enjoy flirting, texting, engaging with others on social media? No, she’s too shy.
Does she masturbate? She has but I haven’t been aware of it in recent years.
Pre or post menopausal? I guess post because she had a full hysterectomy a few years ago. She does take hormone medication.
Are you willing to play the long game of planting the seed and nurturing it? Or do you want to just find out, yes or no, if she'd like to try this? (So that, if no, you can try to get it out of your head). I don’t mind playing the long game. The way I see it, I’ve got nothing to lose.

Honestly, what are my odds of being successful with her being sexually pleased by another man?

 

[hornycuckhubby]

I’ve been enjoying this site and reading all the different perspectives. I’d like to proceed with dropping some hints to my wife that I’d like her to experience another man. We’ve been together for almost twenty years and I believe we have a great relationship. We’re both extremely busy so our sex life is about once a week. When we do get to enjoy each other, we both orgasm but I believe we both could use something extra. My stamina isn’t what it once was, with the exception for oral. She’s lovely, so I could give her oral for hours, seriously! I’m average size and I know she’d enjoy someone larger, girth specifiy, than I am, especially him having more stamina and being able to literally pound her.
Some details about her. She’s very pretty but I know she’d like to lose weight. In my opinion, she’s beautiful exactly the way she is. After children, she hasn’t been as comfortable with her body. She is an all around good person, doesn’t drink, doesn’t watch porn, doesn’t cuss. If you knew her, she’d be the last person you’d think would go for something like this. She’s only been with one other man besides me, she was married previously. But, she has surprised me with a few things. She enjoys riding my face to receive oral. In this position, she either ride my face until she has an orgasm, yes she’s a squirter, or she’ll slide down and mount me. She enjoys her ass played with while she rides me and it always helps her orgasm. A few times after riding me and both of us having an orgasm, she slide up over face to receive another oral stimulated orgasm.
My struggle is, how to present the idea of her being with another man. She doesn’t like dildos because she says they don’t feel real and she would be turned off watching porn.
Other things to consider, I was asked these questions on a different site.
Kids still at home? Yes, two teenagers
Does she work? Yes, full time.
Travel by herself or with girlfriends? No, but I do encourage it.
Do you share fantasies of any type? Not often, she’s typically quiet about it.
Is she playful? Sense of humor? She can be once she’s comfortable and has a good sarcastic sense of humor.
Assertive or dominant sexually? No, she’d rather me take charge. But, she isn’t shy about accepting oral, even to the point of stripping down and climbing on my face.
Does she enjoy flirting, texting, engaging with others on social media? No, she’s too shy.
Does she masturbate? She has but I haven’t been aware of it in recent years.
Pre or post menopausal? I guess post because she had a full hysterectomy a few years ago. She does take hormone medication.
Are you willing to play the long game of planting the seed and nurturing it? Or do you want to just find out, yes or no, if she'd like to try this? (So that, if no, you can try to get it out of your head). I don’t mind playing the long game. The way I see it, I’ve got nothing to lose.

Honestly, what are my odds of being successful with her being sexually pleased by another man?

 

[hornycuckhubby]

Your not alone, you’ve practically discribed my wife and my situation.

 

[mikewannacuck]

Any exhibitionist/voyeurism streak in her?
I don't mean she seeks it out... I mean does it turn her on?

Best way to tell is NOT to ask her... she will filter her answer to what she thinks she SHOULD say, not what she feels.

Best way is to do the following:
Part 1:
Go out with her wearing something potentially revealing. Not talking a string bikini or side-cut dress with no panties.
Just some snug jeans with a top short enough to have her ass clearly visible.
Then go someplace together where for a few minutes she'd be standing with her back to people.
Could be a bar, but also could be the canned goods at the grocery store.
Then at some point step behind her, and put your arms around her, nothing big, just a light shoulder hug.
The key it is just enough that when you do Part 2 that she remembers the moment.

Part 2:
When you are well into having sex compliment her. Then say that you were driven crazy at (that place), she is so hot, and you say a guy clearly checking you out totally lost in her ass (can do breast, but ass is really the easiest since plausibly someone could be behind her).
I saw how he was looking at you, it drove me wild. You are mine. That's when I came up behind you.
If position allows say that this ass is all mine and squeeze/spank it (whatever she is into).

This may SOUND completely backwards, but it is the best way.
That's because no traditional woman (submissive even if they don't say so) will cuck a man unless you first build up her desirability and your strength to defend her.

Get her hot for being hot, then fantasizing about other guys, you being strong but 'cool' with it and you can make this happen in a fairly short time.

You do part 1 and 2 and this is what may happen:
'Fantasy case' (only happens on forums or true freaks unless already sexually promiscous) - oh dear, yes I'd let him fuck me
Best case, she gets noticeably wetter, hotter, moans, but says nothing.
Common case, she blushes a bit, says 'You know I'm yours alone babe', etc, but doesn't stop the fun.
Worst case, if you've pushed the cuck thing hard before she'll dry out.
If a woman ever dries (and it can happen hard in an instant) you aren't dealing with the intellect, but the emotion. If that's the case you have a long road and going there is more likely divorce than cuck bliss.

I can get best case to cuck in month.
Common case 3-6 months.
Sometimes sooner, but you need to follow the plan based on HER psychology, not yours.

 

[mikewannacuck]

Oh, if you want to 'test your wife' with some BBC texts... contact someone else.
If you want to masterfully carve your partner's psyche to unleash their sexuality DM me.
Women are like a block of marble. You can make them almost anything if you know how to do it.

 

[Hwcouple702]

Perhaps you "overheard" a couple of guys at the bar, from work, at the gym, in the store, etc talking about her body in a "lewd way"...then tell her when she asks what they were saying, but come up with something that would be a "turn on" for HER rather than too "lewd". Then at some point, tell her how turned on you got thinking about those things, how much other men want her. Eventually have sex with her after "waking up" with a hard on from a similar "dream". Fuck her like mad. Then tell her you talked to (insert some secret couple, but you're "sworn to secrecy on who they are" here). You "told them those guys upset you but turned you on" or whatever...then they started telling you about it's a "common fantasy" and they have great sex because she dresses sexy and gets hit on at the bar or whatever. Then over time you can tell her that they took it to reality and it was wonderful...that it's just for the wife because he doesn't even want to play or whatever...lol

You have to modify this to how she reacts to each phase of this story. Perhaps the other wife even enjoys girls, is turned on by your wife (because of course they know her but made you promise not to tell her who they are...not too close of friends, but they've seen her and even fantasized about her during their game).

In any case...play it by ear and don't over play your hand too soon

 

[mikewannacuck]

The reason I suggested the scenario precisely as I wrote it is that it anchors it within the woman's direct experience.
Compliments are good, but anchored events are much, much more powerful. I could write a book as to the many reasons why it is so.