Do any of you ever regret

My wife started seeing her personal trainer over 4 years ago with my blessing as a bit of fun for a few weeks, we agreed it wouldn't be a cuck thing it would be strictly between them. Anyway long story short they have been together for nearly 4 years now and are very much in love as are we still. Rob is a great guy and respects us both. We haven't had sex for over 2 years and i love the situation and definitely no regrets yet
 
Me and my exwife had been on the swingers scene for nearly 20 years prior to our break up but she wanted to have sex wit her cousin and he was the only one I said no to, so she left me to go with him and it lasted just 3 months before she wanted to be with me again. I had moved on by then. My last gf was oversexed and was an ex-bargirl from the Philippines so again swinging was inevitable. She saw many guys with and without me, but she eventually left because she wanted money and travel. She went on the dating sites behind my back and found a wealthy guy so good luck to her. My present wife has been seeing other men since 2013 just one year after we got married and we both love the lifestyle. She will not cheat and still loves me as much as I do her. She has said no matter what happens, she will never leave me as the others did. Not sure if it's a promise or a threat, but the sex is good and the tales she tells are brilliant
 
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No regrets here. We've been living the lifestyle for about 2 years now. There were a few issues in the beginning as we tried to figure things out. Once we started openly discussing each others needs and wants, things kind of fell into place. I don't think I ever want my wife to stop having boyfriends or sex with other men. Ir makes me want her so much more. Our love and relationship has really grown.
 
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2wheel said:
Do you know why?
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Not sure why.................probably a combination of things. Work, stress, loss of her ......, and probably the biggest factor was she had to have a full hysterectomy a few years ago. So I am positive that had a major impact, plus I believe that her hormones are severely lacking and depleted. What bothers me most, is that not having any form of sex life does not seem to bother her. In fact, she doesn't even want to try to find out why she doesn't miss having sex.

VERY FRUSTRATING.
 
My wife is 60 years old, and had a full hysterectomy a few years ago. She had done HRT (hormone replacement therapy) before, and liked it. She is on it now, and would rather fuck than eat when she's hungry! She has had over 20 new men this year. If you can get your wife interested, it will help. There are other benefits besides libido repair. She has more energy, sleeps better, easier to maintain a healthy weight......and did I mention she likes to fuck like a rabbit?!?!
 
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JaknSuz said:
My wife is 60 years old, and had a full hysterectomy a few years ago. She had done HRT (hormone replacement therapy) before, and liked it. She is on it now, and would rather fuck than eat when she's hungry! She has had over 20 new men this year. If you can get your wife interested, it will help. There are other benefits besides libido repair. She has more energy, sleeps better, easier to maintain a healthy weight......and did I mention she likes to fuck like a rabbit?!?!
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Thanks ! and I totally believe you .....I have tried several times to get my wife to check out Bio-identical hormone therapy. We have a specialist for that just up the road, and I have even shown her videos of this doctor explaining the benefits, and interviewing women that have participated in treatment and talking about all of the other health benefits.

It ALWAYS starts a major argument. Pretty much every time I want to discuss our lack of sex life starts an argument inside of 10 minutes these days.

Wish I had a couple like you next door ! That might be easier.......LOL
 
JaknSuz said:
I get it, and understand the position you're in. Sometimes, ya just gotta keep your trap shut to keep the peace! LOL
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Ruth Bader Ginsburg was given a little piece of advice on her wedding day by her ...... in law: “In every good marriage, it helps sometimes to be a little deaf.”
 
Hwcouple702 said:
Not at all! In fact, the "lifestyle" is just "normal" to us and it's now very difficult to even remember what "normal" relationship problems are when it comes to sex. We just don't understand all of the frustration over extramarital sex. On the other hand "extramarital falling in love or relationship" is a horrible thought. Neither of us is wired to "fall in love" with another because we were always meant to be together. Our sex lives are something different. If you ever read our "Wedding Day" story you know that we have been involved in this literally...since a few hours after our wedding vows. It wasn't planned that way but it just happened. Fortunately we had talked about and fantasized about sex with others the entire time we dated. Walking in and finding your bride mounting a huge cock by a guy who just slipped her out of her wedding dress would be a marital death sentence in most relationships. In our case, particularly Mrs HW's, it was a critical moment in the hotwife path. There were a few others but we have been fortunate in our relationship and sexual adventure for all of these years. To be sure there have been long periods of time, even years, when we were either not interested in or just too busy for "lifestyle" sex. In those times, sex between us was just as fantastic. Just our experience I suppose.

Mr HW
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Could you point me in the direction of your wedding story? I would like to read it.
 
Ladonawire said:
My wife started seeing her personal trainer over 4 years ago with my blessing as a bit of fun for a few weeks, we agreed it wouldn't be a cuck thing it would be strictly between them. Anyway long story short they have been together for nearly 4 years now and are very much in love as are we still. Rob is a great guy and respects us both. We haven't had sex for over 2 years and i love the situation and definitely no regrets yet
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So Essentially, it has been a CUCKOLD thing (for at least the last 2 years anyways).
Tease and denial is nice and something I enjoy being said...How did it become that you're now totally denied sex for the last 2 years?
Who's idea/decision was it for you to be totally denied sex (yours, your wife's, or your wife AND her lover)?

I love my wife dearly, along with the Cuckold lifestyle we ventured into about 6 years ago. Tease and denial is a regular part of our Cuckold marriage, always with my wife being the one who decides how long I am denied for.
She has been with her boyfriend for 5+ years now, and I would never allow her boyfriend (or any other man for that matter) to make ANY decisions regarding my sexual denial... That's solely my wife's decision to make. She alone has that Power.
The one thing have agreed (from the very beginning) to is that they are only intimate (have sex/make love) alone, as he still gets awkward around me. I've onlyjoined them once for sex in the 5+ years they've been dating. The 3 of us do occasionally hang out publicly, and when we do, they act as the lovey dovey couple, and at times, I do feel like the 3rd wheel, which is OK with me, as I actually really enjoy the internal humiliation. My wife however, would never intentionally humiliate me, especially in public settings.
I'm obviously submissive to my wife, and wouldn't mind being sexually submissive to her boyfriend either, if he wasn't so awkward around me, but oh well. It is what it is.
I (along with my wife)I
Ladonawire said:
My wife started seeing her personal trainer over 4 years ago with my blessing as a bit of fun for a few weeks, we agreed it wouldn't be a cuck thing it would be strictly between them. Anyway long story short they have been together for nearly 4 years now and are very much in love as are we still. Rob is a great guy and respects us both. We haven't had sex for over 2 years and i love the situation and definitely no regrets yet
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Sounds like it DID become a CUCKOLD arrangement, at least for the last 2 years, huh ?

My wife has been with her boyfriend for almost 6 years now, and they were also high school sweethearts (when they dated for 3 years). Her and I have been together for 16 years, and married 14 years. Tease and denial is very much a part of our Cuckold marriage, and my wife is the only one to decide if and when I'm denied, and for how long. I would personally NEVER allow another man (and my wife definitely wouldn't either) to make the decision of whether I'm denied sex with my wife. That's solely her decision to make. That being said...
I'm curious as to who's idea/decision it was to be denied sex for the last now 4+ years. Was the decision yours, your wife's, or your wife's AND her boyfriend's ?
 
bellaazz said:
My ex-wife fell for a bull she was fucking. Even though she was allowed to fuck whomever she wanted as long as I knew about it, she started seeing him behind my back. I found out when his wife called me and found they were in a hotel room together. I asked her why she did it behind my back and she said she was developing feelings for him and wanted "private time" with him. She did not know he was married however. We ended up working it out but we did get divorced although not for this reason
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they always get divorced for OTHER reasons, lol!
 
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My ex-wife fell for a bull she was fucking. Even though she was allowed to fuck whomever she wanted as long as I knew about it, she started seeing him behind my back. I found out when his wife called me and found they were in a hotel room together. I asked her why she did it behind my back and she said she was developing feelings for him and wanted "private time" with him. She did not know he was married however. We ended up working it out but we did get divorced although not for this reason
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it,s always for OTHER reasond. lol!
 
No none. Wife had several men in her life. She developed feelings for two of them. Completely in love. One lasted 2 years, other 3 years. Both ended because they both wanted her to divorce me and become exclusive to them. Wife is a free bird. She hates it when someone try to cage her. When wife develops feeling, it is so much more enjoyable, extremely hot. However, I can see that it could end up in divorce. This is because a) marriage is already weak, and b) cuckolding started for wrong reasons,e.g., husband wants it and wife is in it because of husband. I believe it can work only if wife has a very high sex drive, wants more men in life, and husband is secure, not jealous. My two cents.
 

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