Actually had a black guy talk me up at a bar / buy me a drink the other night - his wife was eyeing me up the whole time. I didn't really get what was going on initially, he was a nice dude but I was just trying to politely excuse myself to get back to my friends. Afterwards, my buddy was like "Uhhh, you know they were totally trying to pick you up for a 3-some or something." and the it dawned on me. Maybe under different circumstances I'd have taken them up on the offer haha... but alas, I was out with a group.