Actually, what I wrote was that my other half got into it far too much, to the point of obsession, which was too much as our "normal" sex life became non existent. For me I have to have a great love life first and foremost, the rest may happen if I'm comfortable with it.So a few questions come to mind if I may? Obviously your BF at the time regretted it, but did you? Also, do you currently have a SO that enjoys sharing you?