Wife had an affair with a cousin about 20yrs older than she is. When growing up he did take on a role as uncle/father due to family circumstances. But she also had a sort of crush on him. 30yrs later they rendezvoused at a family reunion. She was wearing a typical slutty red dress. She does it on purpose to spite her female cousins and jealous brothers. But this cousin couldnt get over how attractive she had become. Of course she was now sporting a fake set of Ds and a fake ass plus tummy tuck and lypo. He never saw the mommy years.
Short story she ended up in his hotel bed that night. She kept saying to me that she was confused. She desired him and enjoyed him but still saw him as a fatherly figure. I said, I think that is why you are attracted to him. You still seek his protection. I also encouraged her to see him more. I said that she owed him her ass in return for the years he took care of her and her family. So it turned into a 2yr affair ... he was driving down from NJ to DC or I would take her up there. I made it clear to him that he had ALL the rights to her and he was making her "very happy" and I thanked him for that.