In my younger years if I got a bj it was because she wouldn't fuck me. Sometimes the girl would jack me off into a kleenex or maybe swallow. One night I'm at this girl's place, she's blowing me on her couch, I say I'm ready to cum she just keeps going. I unload she swallowed it all. Right after she comes up for a kiss. No way was I gonna taste sperm. She just shoved her tongue into my mouth and I went with it. I could taste it, she was so turned on, I was good with it too, learned it was OK. We fucked all night.
Way later, different girl, we fuck, I cum in her, were making out after, she asked if I'll lick her, I froze. I knew I had to. Wasn't bad but how she LOVED it was the hot part.
Still different girl, I cum in her mouth thinking she swallowed it, she comes up for a kiss but she's got my load in her mouth tounging it into my mouth. I thought I was gonna puke.
I'm good with a kiss after or licking a pussy after but getting it spit into my mouth is not my thing.