Over time, my wife and I have “ritualized” certain aspects of our sex life.
Ritualized sex, and the details of intimate, erotic ritual fascinate both of us, and have even since the time we were dating. While it in some regard is counterintuitive, the regularization, or making routine, some aspects of sexual intimacy, rather than leading to boredom, can lead to opening up and expanding erotic pleasure.
We have a pre-encounter ritual, a process of preparing my wife for a sexual encounter with a stranger, a new partner as its primary function, and secondarily preparing me. Notionally, this pre-encounter ritual is sort of a non-verbal contract between my wife and I.
In most cases, we don’t follow the full-blown ritual before every encounter - it is somewhat adjusted based on time, mood, and practical needs, but the whole of the routine is elaborate, and involved.
Once a plan is in motion, and the encounter has been set up, and the logistics addressed, the pre-encounter ritual begins a day or two ahead of the actual encounter date.
It starts with banter, about what KK wants to experience, whether or not I will participate directly, and what role I will play, and what she might (or might not) wear. Sometimes that leads to the need for her to buy a new outfit, or accessories like shoes, lingerie, jewelry, or something even as simple as making sure we have enough of our favorite lube, a food-grade, edible coconut oil.
The day of the encounter, the next phase of the ritual takes place. Most of the time this starts in our playroom, a converted master bedroom suite that’s been remodeled and outfitted specifically for sex, from the design and layout of the bathroom, to the furnishings and decorations. The bathroom is an important element of the ritual, as are some of the furnishings in the playroom, in particular the massage table.
As things get underway, my wife administers a dose of Cialis to me - it varies between a 10mg split dose, to 20mg. I don’t suffer ED - the Cialis has the effect, when combined with sexual stimulation of producing intense, firm erections. It is a deliberate thing on her part, to make sure I’m hard, and experience the sensations and awareness of intense arousal, without necessarily being granted the satisfaction of release.
After the Cialis, KK starts the next phase of the pre-encounter ritual on her own, if she’s intentionally planning anal sex as part of the encounter. She’ll void herself in private, then call me in for assistance - to provide a series of cleansing enemas that I will administer. My wife despises “messy” anal sex, and for confidence and poise, likes to be thoroughly clean for that bit of deviance.
The enema session is followed by a shaving session. We use the massage table for this, spreading my wife on the table, atop a towel, then a careful, slow shave of her labia, pubis, and taint. During that part of the ritual, I will almost always stimulate her, testing the skin for stubble, watching her become wet and lubricated, concluding with a clit massage to her first orgasm of the day. This first orgasm is important, as part of that non-verbal contract, I’m preparing her, voluntarily for another man, focused on her experience and pleasure. I shave my cock and balls, while KK watches, and tests for smoothness - usually by this time the Cialis has kicked in, so my cock will be throbbing hard from the stimulation and attention.
The shaving session is followed with a shower. The shower is equipped with a long braided stainless-steel hose, and douche nozzle, which I used on KK’s pussy. The stimulation generally causes her to ********, and it also produces sufficient clitoral stimulation to cause her to orgasm. The walk-in shower has a nice bench for her to rest on during the douche and wet play, and the rain heads add a sensual effect, and keep us warm under the spray.
She will shave her legs and underarms, then I wash KK from head to toe, carefully, thoroughly, gently lathering her, rinsing her, and applying body oil before finally drying her.
The next phase is a relaxing deep-tissue massage - KK gets on the massage table, and I provide the neck to toe massage, usually closing with providing another orgasm for her. During this entire time, I’m erect. The visual and tactile stimulation of my wife’s naked body, being prepared for sex produces extraordinary physical and emotional sensations.
Depending on the schedule, there’s usually a gap between the massage and the next part of the pre-encounter ritual. Sometimes KK takes a nap, other times she’ll have a light meal or snack of some sort.
As the pre-encounter ritual progresses, KK will usually strap up my cock and balls with one of the toys from our collection. This starts with her having me fetch the cock and ball toy of her choice, while she sits in the little chair at her make-up table. She’s usually naked, or sometimes will wear a robe or kimono, open to reveal her sexy shaved pussy and big tits.
Once I’m strapped up, she will apply Neutrogena fragrance-free hand cream to my cock-head, focusing on the glans, frenulum, and slightly down the shaft to my circumcision scar - this is an exquisite finger-tip cock worship experience, and she controls the situation, deliberately teasing me, bringing me to the edge of ejaculation, until my cock leaks pre-cum. Then she stops, leaving me rock hard, throbbing, and dripping. Before I developed good self-control, many times during this part of our ritual, I would lose it, exploding, blowing cum all over my wife’s face, hair and tits. Once the hand cream has been absorbed, and she’s had me clean the pre-cum from her fingertips, I sit and watch her apply her makeup and do her hair. That is a treat that she lets me enjoy - I developed a fascination and fetish of watching an attractive woman putting on makeup when I was young, by virtue of a much older affair partner who was extraordinarily talented in seducing young men. KK’s aware of that experience, and has extended it as part of our intimate, erotic play.
The final phase is helping and/or watching her dress. Sometimes this is an extended teasing session, in which KK will try on various items of clothing, feigning dissatisfaction about some aspect of it, fishing for compliments, or feedback, looking for my reaction to things like her panties, bra, stockings, shoes, etc. She is a total tease and exhibitionist, and usually my cock is steel-hard during this part of the ritual - so much so that I sometimes break down and beg her for relief of some sort. The final product is my gorgeous wife, aroused, pampered, and fully prepared for sex with another man, or men, ready to present herself for the encounter.
If we go the full-blown ritual route, it can sometimes take the better part of a couple of days, including shopping, and the prep part of the ritual. Other times, this gets compressed into a couple of hours, if we’re pressed for time.
