Cuckold regret
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When we started 6+ years ago, no kissing was my rule too, however, wifey just said NO, if no kissing then can call hotwifing off because that was a deal breaker, without kissing she does not get aroused for sex. Now I enjoy seeing her kiss her boyfriends.
Another was married men only, but that also fell by the wayside.
Same deal with us, except both wife and I agreed kissing was special to us, haha. First time her and the guy had their tongues down each others throats within minutes. She admitted she loves to kiss deep as it's just natural when aroused. Like you married men were supposed to be taboo, not anymore, attitude and cock seem to get priority over morals for her. One other thing I was told by her before starting the journey was absolutely no anal with randoms........well, that lasted until 4th bull we hooked up with, he took it easy, not even a whimper from her.....well there were whimpers just not of protest at least haha. In the end a husband like me just has to learn to accept what is happening isn't really controllable once the genie's out of the bottle.
SoftStub805
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First off, I'm not a cuck and just lurk here most of the time, so if you want to ignore my comments I understand.
A lot of guys fantasize about being a cuckold at least once, which you did, and despite the fact that it didn't go well, later in life you may be glad you at least got the opportunity that many men never will.
Although you and your girlfriend have been together for a few years and I assume you have both invested a lot of emotion into this relationship, you are not married, and I assume you don't have any children. If for some reason this ends your relationship, there will be no expensive divorce, ...... support payments, etc. Having known a lot of divorced fathers, let me assure you that walking away with only the emotional pain is getting off easily.
Communication between the both of you will be the key to working through this and determining where you go from here. Regarding the cuckold lifestyle, you both may be willing to accept it as a failed experiment, possibly never to be tried again, but if you do it again try to learn from past mistakes.
If you do try it again, I think you have been given a lot of wisdom from experienced people here. Better screening of bulls, and also despite any rules you may have, learn what your girlfriend wants from her bull(s), and out of the whole experience.
Best wishes to you both.
A lot of guys fantasize about being a cuckold at least once, which you did, and despite the fact that it didn't go well, later in life you may be glad you at least got the opportunity that many men never will.
Although you and your girlfriend have been together for a few years and I assume you have both invested a lot of emotion into this relationship, you are not married, and I assume you don't have any children. If for some reason this ends your relationship, there will be no expensive divorce, ...... support payments, etc. Having known a lot of divorced fathers, let me assure you that walking away with only the emotional pain is getting off easily.
Communication between the both of you will be the key to working through this and determining where you go from here. Regarding the cuckold lifestyle, you both may be willing to accept it as a failed experiment, possibly never to be tried again, but if you do it again try to learn from past mistakes.
If you do try it again, I think you have been given a lot of wisdom from experienced people here. Better screening of bulls, and also despite any rules you may have, learn what your girlfriend wants from her bull(s), and out of the whole experience.
Best wishes to you both.
I like this thread, but Jesus some of the comments are hard to read. If you're taking time to write something, don't you want us to understand what you're saying?
