For many years now, I have had an overwhelming desire to catch my cousin’s husband’s eye, but no matter what I tried over the years never got anywhere. Tried everything I could think of, plenty of flirting, wearing skimpy outfits and even asking him to help me out of my wetsuit so that the two of us were all alone on the beach with him pulling the wetsuit legs off of my naked body right there in front of him. Nothing ever worked, until last weekend.
His wife has had some health issues for several months and he is a big fan of walking. On a weekend away my cousin wasn’t feeling up to going on the walk with him and my husband wouldn’t ever entertain the idea of going on a walk at all. So I offered to go on the walk with him, while my husband and cousin stayed behind.
My cousins husband likes to go on long walks talking a couple of hours or more, so I packed some cold drinks, a picnic rug and some food in my backpack so we could stop for a rest somewhere for something to eat and drink, as there was no way I was walking non stop for a couple of hours. We stopped in a sunny spot in a field by the canal and just chatted about everything and anything. Of course at one point in the conversation we talked about his wife’s health issues and how they were coping. He lamented how life had changed a lot for them, how they only ever seem to talk about her health issues and their relationship was suffering. He explained how frustrated he was that they had no sex life any more and how he would like nothing more than to make love to his wife in a field on a warm sunny day like today.
He wasn’t saying this in a suggestive way at all, he was genuinely wishing that his wife was there with him and she would indulge him. So I asked is that something the two of them used to do a lot, half expecting him to say something like they used to do that when they were younger. He surprised me by saying no, they had never done it despite him suggesting it a few times, she was too shy and that sex was something that was confined to the bedroom, and even that doesn’t happen since she became ill. In a somewhat selfish comment, he then said he never expected to find himself in that position, it wasn’t what he signed up to when they married. He could see I was a little surprised by the comment, so quickly added, he loves her and would never cheat, but how difficult it was. I didn’t quite know what to say so the conversation moved on to other things.
After a while I steered the conversation back to sex lives, I told him that my husband and I don’t really have any sex any more and that probably many marriages end up that way. I said, I guess you either have to accept the situation and put up with it, divorce or I guess some people would argue that sex with someone else could be justified by the lack of sex in their marriage. I said divorce is a massive step to take, so perhaps sex with someone else is the only option. Then I just came out with it and said I would always be happy to help him out if the frustration got too much. He laughed it off, assuming I was joking and we got up and carried on on the walk. A bit later on the walk somehow the conversation returned to that earlier conversation where he said I should be careful about saying things like that, what if could have been awkward if he thought I was being serious.
This was my opportunity to say, I wasn’t joking, I have known him for more than 30 years and wouldn’t hesitate to help him with his fantasy of sex in the great outdoors. How I thought he was a very attractive man and it would be a pleasure for me, as long as he found me attractive as well. This was when he said, he had all sorts of thoughts running through his head when we were on the beach together helping me out of my wetsuit a couple of years ago, but would never have said anything.
As you probably guessed, we talked a bit more about it, he had lots of questions about why, what if his wife found out, etc, until eventually we found another nice spot to set out the blanket in a secluded spot in a field, where we spent ages kissing and eventually we filled his fantasy. He was so incredibly nervous, looking over his shoulder every few seconds to make sure nobody could see us, but it was lovely, I have spent so many years chasing him that it was just so intense. Slightly spoiled by the walk back, where he went very quiet, with the occasional worry about what we had done. I sincerely hope it isn’t the last time!
His wife has had some health issues for several months and he is a big fan of walking. On a weekend away my cousin wasn’t feeling up to going on the walk with him and my husband wouldn’t ever entertain the idea of going on a walk at all. So I offered to go on the walk with him, while my husband and cousin stayed behind.
My cousins husband likes to go on long walks talking a couple of hours or more, so I packed some cold drinks, a picnic rug and some food in my backpack so we could stop for a rest somewhere for something to eat and drink, as there was no way I was walking non stop for a couple of hours. We stopped in a sunny spot in a field by the canal and just chatted about everything and anything. Of course at one point in the conversation we talked about his wife’s health issues and how they were coping. He lamented how life had changed a lot for them, how they only ever seem to talk about her health issues and their relationship was suffering. He explained how frustrated he was that they had no sex life any more and how he would like nothing more than to make love to his wife in a field on a warm sunny day like today.
He wasn’t saying this in a suggestive way at all, he was genuinely wishing that his wife was there with him and she would indulge him. So I asked is that something the two of them used to do a lot, half expecting him to say something like they used to do that when they were younger. He surprised me by saying no, they had never done it despite him suggesting it a few times, she was too shy and that sex was something that was confined to the bedroom, and even that doesn’t happen since she became ill. In a somewhat selfish comment, he then said he never expected to find himself in that position, it wasn’t what he signed up to when they married. He could see I was a little surprised by the comment, so quickly added, he loves her and would never cheat, but how difficult it was. I didn’t quite know what to say so the conversation moved on to other things.
After a while I steered the conversation back to sex lives, I told him that my husband and I don’t really have any sex any more and that probably many marriages end up that way. I said, I guess you either have to accept the situation and put up with it, divorce or I guess some people would argue that sex with someone else could be justified by the lack of sex in their marriage. I said divorce is a massive step to take, so perhaps sex with someone else is the only option. Then I just came out with it and said I would always be happy to help him out if the frustration got too much. He laughed it off, assuming I was joking and we got up and carried on on the walk. A bit later on the walk somehow the conversation returned to that earlier conversation where he said I should be careful about saying things like that, what if could have been awkward if he thought I was being serious.
This was my opportunity to say, I wasn’t joking, I have known him for more than 30 years and wouldn’t hesitate to help him with his fantasy of sex in the great outdoors. How I thought he was a very attractive man and it would be a pleasure for me, as long as he found me attractive as well. This was when he said, he had all sorts of thoughts running through his head when we were on the beach together helping me out of my wetsuit a couple of years ago, but would never have said anything.
As you probably guessed, we talked a bit more about it, he had lots of questions about why, what if his wife found out, etc, until eventually we found another nice spot to set out the blanket in a secluded spot in a field, where we spent ages kissing and eventually we filled his fantasy. He was so incredibly nervous, looking over his shoulder every few seconds to make sure nobody could see us, but it was lovely, I have spent so many years chasing him that it was just so intense. Slightly spoiled by the walk back, where he went very quiet, with the occasional worry about what we had done. I sincerely hope it isn’t the last time!
