Couples how do you find guys?

[Loridan]

Couples
Do you have a regular ? Do you like to hook up with strangers?
Do you search for men on line? Do you go to bars looking ?

 

[Kandjfun]

Couples
Do you have a regular ? Do you like to hook up with strangers?
Do you search for men on line? Do you go to bars looking ?

All of ours have been strangers we have found online.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

All of ours have been strangers we have found online.

Two ways mainly.

Online, screening guys that would fit wife's and ours desires in general.
Or men that wife knew directly or indirectly and got interested for any reason.

Some of them had turned into regulars at least for a while. We don't look for friends but the men need to be good sport and educated for a minimum interaction.

Bars and clubs are awful places to meet people for this (well, in our point of view).

 

[cottee1985]

Two ways mainly.

Online, screening guys that would fit wife's and ours desires in general.
Or men that wife knew directly or indirectly and got interested for any reason.

Some of them had turned into regulars at least for a while. We don't look for friends but the men need to be good sport and educated for a minimum interaction.

Bars and clubs are awful places to meet people for this (well, in our point of view).

We're trying to meet couples or men here in Las Vegas but it's very difficult to meet the right couple or male/ bull

 

[FreeUseMex]

Most of my wife’s sexual encounters have been sourced via Twitter, but she’s also good at picking guys up in markets, hardware stores, concerts etc. it’s just a matter of being comfortable with letting men know she’s a free use whore and that they can use her.

 

[Funtimes4us]

I've had the same question. I'd love to venture into the lifestyle, but have no idea how or where to start.

 

[TonyECC]

We use a swingers site mostly, they can be hit and miss if honest, wife can end up with a half dozen one night stands and a load of no shows and other times will end up with 4 or 5 regular fuck buddies, she also likes to take on men she meets in real life through her work.....

She is a size queen so once she has a few guys on the go she tends to fuck them regularly and they can last anything from a few months to many years, there is a lot to be said for knowing your fuck buddy and obviously once you do the sx is better.

The most difficult problem is finding guys with big cocke who know how to use them and have some personality, we get a lot of 2 out of 3's so to speak....

 

[Loridan]

We're trying to meet couples or men here in Las Vegas but it's very difficult to meet the right couple or male/ bull

We get with a guy we casually knew befor. He's a super cool guy, we've don't it many many times with him, he's the guy we started with.
We hooked up with a stranger oit of town once. Met him in our hotel bar. Conversation and flirting in the bar was damn hot, wife was REALLY into him. We went up to his room and he turned into an asshole. In his room they were making out, she had her top off, she started to suck his dick then he said how he was going to fuck her ass while I watched. They was he said it was a huge buzz ....... She put her top on and we left.
That was our only experience with a stranger.

 

[BigSkies]

Two ways mainly.

Online, screening guys that would fit wife's and ours desires in general.
Or men that wife knew directly or indirectly and got interested for any reason.

Some of them had turned into regulars at least for a while. We don't look for friends but the men need to be good sport and educated for a minimum interaction.

Bars and clubs are awful places to meet people for this (well, in our point of view).

I guess it depends on what one might be looking for , but for us and certainly for me (m) bars & clubs are out.... it's more about the 'people', gotta feel at least SOME sense of mutual 'spark' / 'connection' and a degree of mutual personal interests & intellectual compatibility... I mean, nobody fucks for 12 hours straight, so if you don't naturally get on and along as personable & interesting people, for us that would eel pretty much 'empty' really..... more like just wanking, but kinda with a walking talking dildo.... NOT judging, each to their own, and for some folks that exactly what they want and fair enough... just giving what we look for (together or separately) from the dynamic and lifestyle... after all, they do say, the biggest sexual organ in the human body is actually, the brain...🤷‍♂️😊

 

[Htwf4fwb]

Couples
Do you have a regular ?

Yes but it’s been a string of regulars over the years. Some last, some don’t, none last forever. That’s what husbands are for

Do you like to hook up with strangers?

They are essentially all strangers to start but I vet them online, if they pass that I meet them for a coffee and if they get through that then we become sex friends.

Do you search for men on line?

Yes, swingers, dating and fetish sites. Be upfront and honest. Say what you want, will do and won’t do and ask them the same. There should be no surprises on date night. Don’t take any ....... Drop anyone who doesn’t show maximum respect

Do you go to bars looking ?

No

 

[bluejay88]

Detailed screening on AFF.

 

[pdxluv2suck]

My wife fucks our friends. There always seems to be a free guy - at our age, typically divorced - who we enjoy their company. They come over, we go in the hot tub all naked and she starts by sucking their cock. I nod that its OK and let the fun begin. The guy friend, there has been 3, knows he can come over for a meal, a few drinks, and then end up in a spitroast with her in the middle. Safe, sane, no risk sexual pleasure. Love it!