Cheating

[samsar]

Hi guys, I want to ask you a question,
How would you react if you came home and found your wife in bed with another man,?
I read on other forums guys saying different things like ,
They would secretly take pictures to use against the wife later and then leave the house,
Or they would ask to join in,
Or they would do all sorts of things like install cameras and wait for months gathering evidence before challenging the wife and financially destroying her and her APs life ,
What would I do,well barging in and kicking him out of the house comes to mind, asking my wife what the hell she was thinking of,
Wanting to know how long and how many times he has fucked her,and I would really really pissed if they were fucking in out bed,the spare room maybe but not the bed we had spent every night of our married life in,
Then I would consider divorce,
I'm just curious to know how other guys would handle this situation,..?

 

[samsar]

With open communication and set rules it’s not cheating. My hubby and I have that understanding. I personally don’t understand people who cheat. Either be open about it or divorce. That being said my hubby has come home many times while I was with a bull. We have a guest room just for that. Many times my hubby and my bull have a beer together afterwards. My hubby and his sluts use the same room. No biggie and no revenge needed.

All very civilised, 👍

 

[Happy Mom]

All very civilised, 👍

Agree. I wish more of the world were more accepting of the lifestyle we live.

 

[samsar]

Agree. I wish more of the world were more accepting of the lifestyle we live.

Unfortunately when my wife cheated on me it was anything but civilised there was yelling tears and a lot of pain, which lasted a long time ,😥

 

[Happy Mom]

Unfortunately when my wife cheated on me it was anything but civilised there was yelling tears and a lot of pain, which lasted a long time ,😥

I’m sorry to hear that. I wish more people weren’t so mean and hurtful. Let me know if I can cheer you up.

 

[Robbiann_CD]

Unfortunately when my wife cheated on me it was anything but civilised there was yelling tears and a lot of pain, which lasted a long time ,😥

Same here. I’ve written it several times, we separated and she got a boyfriend, came home and I said “you can keep fucking him, I’m fine with it”. So it was agreed upon but fell apart. I then said “you can find someone else baby, just look and when you find him, I’m supportive of it 100%”.

Sadly, there was sorta already someone else but she kept it hidden from me. For a year. Due to several things we kinda drifted apart and she had it in her mind she was gonna move to his state, he’d leave his wife and marry her. Didn’t work out that way and she ended up back at home.

All that crap, all the harsh words, lawyer fees, just a bunch of needless and pointless ...... because she wouldn’t play ball the way we agreed. Now it’s “I have no interest in it at all” but deep down I feel like if the right guy popped into her life, she’d take a boyfriend and we’d be much happier as a result. That’s my thinking anyway but as she puts it “you’re so weird and freak”.

 

[samsar]

I’m sorry to hear that. I wish more people weren’t so mean and hurtful. Let me know if I can cheer you up.

It's all right it happened 10 years ago and we are still together,
Yes there was a lot of pain but we worked through it I still loved her and truth be told I am to stubborn to let the other guy win,lol
She pleaded with me and told me how much of a mistake it was and she would never do it again,
All the usual stuff , it wasn't the sex that bothered me it was the deception her going to him behind my back ,

 

[Mxfunguy]

My wife of 8 years, started going out with her co workers. She started getting defensive and mean towards me. Got secretive with her phone. I remembered her long in for Insta. Her co worker that she went out with all the time, messages of her and my wife talking about dicks and big cocks. Then I found message of a married male co worker of hers. Scrolled and bam there he and her are talking about how they were fucking and if he’s the only none white guy she’s been with. Then come to find out all her worker friends knew they where going out her car and fucking as well.

 

[samsar]

My wife of 8 years, started going out with her co workers. She started getting defensive and mean towards me. Got secretive with her phone. I remembered her long in for Insta. Her co worker that she went out with all the time, messages of her and my wife talking about dicks and big cocks. Then I found message of a married male co worker of hers. Scrolled and bam there he and her are talking about how they were fucking and if he’s the only none white guy she’s been with. Then come to find out all her worker friends knew they where going out her car and fucking as well.

Can you tell us how you dealt with it,and what happened after you found out,
I went through the same thing with my wife having an a affair with a co worker it nearly ended our marriage but after months of pleading and her saying how sorry she was and promising it would never happen again we survived but only just,👍

 

[Mxfunguy]

Can you tell us how you dealt with it,and what happened after you found out,
I went through the same thing with my wife having an a affair with a co worker it nearly ended our marriage but after months of pleading and her saying how sorry she was and promising it would never happen again we survived but only just,👍

Where divorcing, I gave her tons of opportunities to come forward and tell me. She knew I was interested in the lifestyle and she made me feel like ...... for even bringing it up. Then did it behind my back and I found out about two others. She was the one who wanted to leave, but then she wanted to come back but at the end of the day she couldn’t be honest with me; and she made me feel guilty for her choices. When we had a talk before I even found out about the cheating she never once said she wanted to work things out for the right reasons. Is was all about how I could take care of her or how she knows I love her and she would be ok. It came down to what I provided not love.

 

[samsar]

Where divorcing, I gave her tons of opportunities to come forward and tell me. She knew I was interested in the lifestyle and she made me feel like ...... for even bringing it up. Then did it behind my back and I found out about two others. She was the one who wanted to leave, but then she wanted to come back but at the end of the day she couldn’t be honest with me; and she made me feel guilty for her choices. When we had a talk before I even found out about the cheating she never once said she wanted to work things out for the right reasons. Is was all about how I could take care of her or how she knows I love her and she would be ok. It came down to what I provided not love.

I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out for you,my wife had a shot three month affair with a guy she worked with and the night she ended with him the jury phoned me at home and told me about his affair with my wife,
That night she came home all hell broke loose there was screaming tears and anger I felt betrayed and I let her know it big time,it took us 10 months to a year to really connect as a husband and wife again the most miserable months of both our lives,
But as I said we got through it first for the sake of the children but it left a deep scar on both of us,
In your case I guess divorce was the only option it destroys the trust between a couple and love is not enough to survive on it's own,👍

 

[Mxfunguy]

I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out for you,my wife had a shot three month affair with a guy she worked with and the night she ended with him the jury phoned me at home and told me about his affair with my wife,
That night she came home all hell broke loose there was screaming tears and anger I felt betrayed and I let her know it big time,it took us 10 months to a year to really connect as a husband and wife again the most miserable months of both our lives,
But as I said we got through it first for the sake of the children but it left a deep scar on both of us,
In your case I guess divorce was the only option it destroys the trust between a couple and love is not enough to survive on it's own,👍

Yea I found out about an affair in 2018 as well damaged all trust. Plus the most recent one and the way she treated me and made me feel like I was nothing and how I was not good enough. Or I was just a waste of her time that’s stuff you can’t take back. If she wouldn’t of ripped me apart and made me feel worthless and came clean and told me everything I would of been able to consider working through it or the lifestyle

 

[samsar]

The strange think is to this day she says she didn't know why she did it,we had two of a family a good life no money worries a better than average sex life every thing in our lives was good,
She didn't love the guy she had no intention of leaving me fo him and she ended it before I found out when she realised what she was risking,
Why is still a mystery, 👍

 

[samsar]

It wasn't the sex that bothered me it was the going behind my back the secrecy and the way I found out the jurk phoned me and told me he had been fucking my wife for three months and that she planned to leave me for him which as it turned out was totally untrue,
The shock of that phone call shattered my world in an instant,
The anger I felt was of the scale and when she walked through the door that night I was not the man she knew ,
I was a different person that she had never experienced before,
I scared her and I wasn't sorry for it anger can do strange things to a person, 👍

 

[dsmontessori19]

How and why did you reward her, ?

She got what she wanted. A lifestyle of fucking other guys and me. 🙂

 

[cuck52]

Hi guys, I want to ask you a question,
How would you react if you came home and found your wife in bed with another man,?
I read on other forums guys saying different things like ,
They would secretly take pictures to use against the wife later and then leave the house,
Or they would ask to join in,
Or they would do all sorts of things like install cameras and wait for months gathering evidence before challenging the wife and financially destroying her and her APs life ,
What would I do,well barging in and kicking him out of the house comes to mind, asking my wife what the hell she was thinking of,
Wanting to know how long and how many times he has fucked her,and I would really really pissed if they were fucking in out bed,the spare room maybe but not the bed we had spent every night of our married life in,
Then I would consider divorce,
I'm just curious to know how other guys would handle this situation,..?

I love my wife to cheat on me behind my back.. I have come home and found her fucking someone in our bed.. She told me to shut the fuck up, get naked sit down and watch.. She to edge my little dick but I wasn't allowed to cum. When he was leaving she made me thank him for satisfying my wife. I can't satisfy my wife my little dick is too small. She wiped his cock off on my pillow.. I loved taking the humiliation from her.. I ate out her cum filled pussy and licked out her asshole...

 

[like2wacher66]

Hi guys, I want to ask you a question,
How would you react if you came home and found your wife in bed with another man,?
I read on other forums guys saying different things like ,
They would secretly take pictures to use against the wife later and then leave the house,
Or they would ask to join in,
Or they would do all sorts of things like install cameras and wait for months gathering evidence before challenging the wife and financially destroying her and her APs life ,
What would I do,well barging in and kicking him out of the house comes to mind, asking my wife what the hell she was thinking of,
Wanting to know how long and how many times he has fucked her,and I would really really pissed if they were fucking in out bed,the spare room maybe but not the bed we had spent every night of our married life in,
Then I would consider divorce,
I'm just curious to know how other guys would handle this situation,..?

I would try to not disturb them but let them know i was there and i would take out my stiff cock and start jacking off. if invited to participate i would love to kiss my wife while she is fucking other guy. i would also love to lie under my wife and lick and kiss her pussy while she is being fucked.

 

[samsar]

I would try to not disturb them but let them know i was there and i would take out my stiff cock and start jacking off. if invited to participate i would love to kiss my wife while she is fucking other guy. i would also love to lie under my wife and lick and kiss her pussy while she is being fucked.

Would you take sloppy seconds when he is finished with her,?

 

[2wheel]

I was cleaning her car for her and in the trunk, in a plastic bag buried in the bottom of a box of stuff she has, was a tube of lube. I had given her permission to fuck/suck anyone she wanted with the caveat that if I ask she tell me what I want to know. So I asked her, denial. This was about 2010. I asked many times and told her she wasn't being honest.

Then about 2016 she she said she did. I kinda of remember the time frame. She was going to her chiropractor 2-3 times a week. Then she says he wants to see her everyday as her back is in bad shape. At the time I didn't think anything of it. So during the 'confession' she asks me if I remember that time period, I say yes. Then she said she started to play with another patient. How often? She said not often enough but several times a week. A few times, several times in one day. I had no idea! How clueless I was. I asked her why she stopped, she said cause I found out. She said if I didn't say anything she would have continued. She added that they were getting ready to include his friends to their playtime. Holy ......! I asked why she wouldn't consider the 'friends' thing with us, she said I live with you. I never understood that answer. I asked why she even did it, she said I did something at the time to ******** her off, but couldn't remember what.


Being that clueless, I wonder how many sloppy seconds I had and how many creampies I ate. Do I have regrets about it - only one - that I wasn't included in what was going on. So much sexual fuel gone to waste, I would have gladly and knowingly be her second and done cleanup