I think you should put your hand bag away. .. I am not condoning sexual harassment.
I am just saying the work place culture is so sanitised and over sensitive, the ability for consensual encounters, whether it be in the office or on work events is pretty much gone. The younger generation appears over sensitive about everything these days. They have no tolerance for humour, hard work or stress. There is a sense of entitlement too. The balance for proportion and appropriateness has swung too much in the other direction which is why there is a growing anti woke movement ( which I am not apart of btw but I can understand why).