Boyfriend, Bull or casual sex?

[malky]

I think this is an interesting topic for discussion. When I read other peoples posts in cuckold and hotwife forums it appears that different couples have different tastes. Some wives have a steady boyfriend whereas some prefer to play the field and others have a bull who services the wife from time to time.

In our case my wife Jess prefers to play the field. She has, on occasions, kept a man around for a few months if he was a good lover and gave her the kind of sex she loved, but even then, she was totally incapable of being faithful to him. She revelled in the freedom she had to go out and fuck just about any man she fancied so she made the most of it. Her most promiscuous period was the time we ran the guest house and she was fucking the residents, The guest house was occupied with many men who were contracting on the nearby nuclear power plant and Jess was fucking two or three guys a week for a long time.

I have written earlier posts on Jess's activities in this forum but I would like to hear other couples accounts, boyfriend or casual? there must be some interesting stories out there.

 

[Nick1477]

After going through a few guys throughout the last couple of years my wife now prefers prefers to stick with regulars and very rarely dates a new guy.

 

[NancyJo]

I'm sure I fit in there somewhere. My husband and I have quite a few friends that are in the lifestyle. We play as couples, separately and as a group. I went to Hedonism with one of the guys while his wife stayed home and entertained Bob. We also do other things outside of the lifestyle with them. Then there's a few guys I see on a fairly regular basis. Typically these guys are married but their wives don't play. Same goes for Bob with other ladies. but it seems that most of them the other husband knows. We both enjoy being a third with other couples. There's more out there than you think. Then there's the casual spur of the moment pickup. It's not uncommon for a guy to be somewhat confused in a grocery store. Depending on the circumstances I'll offer my assistance and quite often that leads to a little 'afternoon delight'.

 

[malky]

I'm sure I fit in there somewhere. My husband and I have quite a few friends that are in the lifestyle. We play as couples, separately and as a group. I went to Hedonism with one of the guys while his wife stayed home and entertained Bob. We also do other things outside of the lifestyle with them. Then there's a few guys I see on a fairly regular basis. Typically these guys are married but their wives don't play. Same goes for Bob with other ladies. but it seems that most of them the other husband knows. We both enjoy being a third with other couples. There's more out there than you think. Then there's the casual spur of the moment pickup. It's not uncommon for a guy to be somewhat confused in a grocery store. Depending on the circumstances I'll offer my assistance and quite often that leads to a little 'afternoon delight'.

Jess had many an afternoon delight when I was at work. She was having sex with her cousins husband and when that affair ended she was fucking the guy next door. Jess loved the company of men and when she was in their company she tended to be very flirty. If she came across a guy she really fancied she would turn on the charm and pay him a lot of attention until he was helpless to resist.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Wife calls them just friends. But there are some friends which been seeing (and fucking) her for about 2 years or so.

She doesn't enjoy one-nights type of things, but doesn't see those men as boyfriends or steady somethings.

 

[emca753]

Sonja was a one at a time person emotionally, with sex

 

[werekinky2]

I think this is an interesting topic for discussion. When I read other peoples posts in cuckold and hotwife forums it appears that different couples have different tastes. Some wives have a steady boyfriend whereas some prefer to play the field and others have a bull who services the wife from time to time.

In our case my wife Jess prefers to play the field. She has, on occasions, kept a man around for a few months if he was a good lover and gave her the kind of sex she loved, but even then, she was totally incapable of being faithful to him. She revelled in the freedom she had to go out and fuck just about any man she fancied so she made the most of it. Her most promiscuous period was the time we ran the guest house and she was fucking the residents, The guest house was occupied with many men who were contracting on the nearby nuclear power plant and Jess was fucking two or three guys a week for a long time.

I have written earlier posts on Jess's activities in this forum but I would like to hear other couples accounts, boyfriend or casual? there must be some interesting stories out there.

This is great . That sounds like a lot of fun . My wife has fucked 3 guys in past 3 years I would say we have one guy we meet with about once a month I’m wanting it to be more often though… but sometimes other things just get in the way…. Right now holidays for example.

 

[575Cuck]

Wife has had friends and a few boyfriends
She did enjoy the boyfriend ordeal especially when a few of her girlfriends were envious of her
She’s had one dominant bull that she really enjoyed at the theater
Now when we go out it’s really just friends for fun.

 

[werekinky2]

As far as casual sex .. go has there been men who the wives have fucked and the husband knew about it and was ok with it….. but the other guy may have been intimidated by the husband or felt awkward after???

 

[Azncouple21]

After going through a few guys throughout the last couple of years my wife now prefers prefers to stick with regulars and very rarely dates a new guy.

Ive been trying to get my wife to get a regular fuck buddy for years
Her biggest concern is being seen then having to explain what we are doing
how do you get around that?

 

[malky]

As far as casual sex .. go has there been men who the wives have fucked and the husband knew about it and was ok with it….. but the other guy may have been intimidated by the husband or felt awkward after???

In my case I was meeting up with Phil and Pete in the pub every Sunday night and unbeknown to me, they had both been fucking my wife the night before. They must have been very concerned what the consequence's would be if I ever found out, but, if they were concerned they didn't ever show it.

 

[575Cuck]

Ive been trying to get my wife to get a regular fuck buddy for years
Her biggest concern is being seen then having to explain what we are doing
how do you get around that?

My wife had that issue at first
Then she just started telling anyone who asked it was just a boyfriend
She loved some of the responses she got back. Nowadays I seriously doubt many would care but she will be the envy of those who ask

 

[HotOneWife]

I have two men I see regularly. I like the way they treat me and make love to me, I like their stamina, I like their ability to stay hard, I like their reliability, and I like their big cocks. I know them and feel safe with them. A lot of the men who want to be bulls are just wanabees. They either don't show, or can't perform, or are just creeps. Sometimes if my husband and I are on vacation, we will meet a guy who seems ok, so I'll take a chance and things often work out. But mostly I stay with the two guys who I know can deliver the goods.

 

[Nick1477]

Ive been trying to get my wife to get a regular fuck buddy for years
Her biggest concern is being seen then having to explain what we are doing
how do you get around that?

Do you mean neighbours etc, if he comes round when you're in I always think it doesn't raise so many suspicions as if he's coming round when you're out.
Most of my wife's dates take place at our caravan and I'm always wary of people seeing men popping in. Just need to be careful.

 

[malky]

I have two men I see regularly. I like the way they treat me and make love to me, I like their stamina, I like their ability to stay hard, I like their reliability, and I like their big cocks. I know them and feel safe with them. A lot of the men who want to be bulls are just wanabees. They either don't show, or can't perform, or are just creeps. Sometimes if my husband and I are on vacation, we will meet a guy who seems ok, so I'll take a chance and things often work out. But mostly I stay with the two guys who I know can deliver the goods.

I know just what your talking about. Jess has fucked a lot of guys but occasionally she has dated someone who either didn't measure up or simply couldn't get it up. She wouldn't normally give these guys a second chance but the ones who could give her the sex she desired would get to date her again.

 

[Azncouple21]

I know just what your talking about. Jess has fucked a lot of guys but occasionally she has dated someone who either didn't measure up or simply couldn't get it up. She wouldn't normally give these guys a second chance but the ones who could give her the sex she desired would get to date her again.

Thats the absolute worst
there were 2 guys in particular who were massive duds
One guy simply had low testosterone. Was decently hung but pointed straight down and couldnt even come close to getting it up. Afterward he said "i didnt think we would go that far so fast" So we invite you over to fuck my wife and you didnt think it would go that far?
2nd guy "forgot" to take a shower and smelled like he came straight from playing basketball outside in 90 degree heat.
To this day wife says "he would have gotten another inviite if he didnt stink....."

 

[malky]

Do you mean neighbours etc, if he comes round when you're in I always think it doesn't rise so many suspicions as if he's coming round when you're out.
Most of my wife's dates take place at our caravan and I'm always wary of people seeing men popping in. Just need to be careful.

Very difficult to keep it under wraps, she needs to keep her trysts as secretive as possible and hope that people don't get suspicious. I was more concerned that my family would find out what Jess was doing but, fortunately we lived far away from our family members so it was unlikely.
Jess went out every Saturday night with her friends and I'm pretty sure if they didn't know what she was up to, they would certainly have been suspicious. If a guy she fancied happened to hit on her during the evening she would arrange to meet him at designated place at the end of the night. It's quite possible that all her friends were up to mischief and agreed a code of silence, as they say, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.

 

[Loridan]

Ive been trying to get my wife to get a regular fuck buddy for years
Her biggest concern is being seen then having to explain what we are doing
how do you get around that?

Our friend visits our home couple of times a month.
We are empty nesters. We have a nice active social life, we often have friends over or we hang out at other's homes.
When our sex friend visits it always on a Friday. He's here from about 5:30 and leaves around 10 but there's been nights he stayed till 2am.
His car parked in our driveway is no big deal.
We leave the lights and TV on downstairs while we're up in our bedroom getting it on so the neighbors don't suspect.

 

[Loridan]

Thats the absolute worst
there were 2 guys in particular who were massive duds
One guy simply had low testosterone. Was decently hung but pointed straight down and couldnt even come close to getting it up. Afterward he said "i didnt think we would go that far so fast" So we invite you over to fuck my wife and you didnt think it would go that far?
2nd guy "forgot" to take a shower and smelled like he came straight from playing basketball outside in 90 degree heat.
To this day wife says "he would have gotten another inviite if he didnt stink....."

3 guys ever for us
The guy we started with, many many times with him
Stranger out of town once, didn't go well
Local guy three times, was OK but wife likes it with original guy so that's what we do
He's NOT the type she's normally attracted to, he has a skinny nerd type body. Super cool guy, he's a good fit for us.

 

[malky]

Thats the absolute worst
there were 2 guys in particular who were massive duds
One guy simply had low testosterone. Was decently hung but pointed straight down and couldnt even come close to getting it up. Afterward he said "i didnt think we would go that far so fast" So we invite you over to fuck my wife and you didnt think it would go that far?
2nd guy "forgot" to take a shower and smelled like he came straight from playing basketball outside in 90 degree heat.
To this day wife says "he would have gotten another inviite if he didnt stink....."

Another case I remember which left Jess extremely disappointed. When Jess was out with her friends she was hit on by a guy she knew from school and he asked if they could meet up one night. When Jess came home and told me about it she was so excited because she fancied this lad from their schooldays. When the night of their date arrived Jess was nervous as a kitten, she couldn't contain her excitement, she really wanted to fuck this guy. She said he was extremely good looking, over six foot tall and looked super fit.
I was excited too, waiting for her to come home with all the juicy details, but, when she arrived she was so downcast. She explained, he took her out for a couple of drinks then went back to his place and of course he took her to his bed, but he was a total disappointment. There was no foreplay, he mounted Jess and cum in about thirty seconds. Jess was devastated, it seems he suffers premature ejaculation which he never warned her about so that was his loss, she never saw him again.