Am I the only person who finds this fetishisation more than slightly distasteful?
I know there are some men who don't have a problem with it, but I've also spoken to others who just accept it as part of the territory and choose to not complain. I find it hard to believe that there's more than a tiny minority of husbands who would be happy for their wife's entire sex appeal to be reduced to the colour of her skin, but a lot of couples have no issue doing this (and worse) to black men.