A few months ago my wife went on a girls trip with a bunch of her friends. A few weeks ago she decided to tell me a little about the trip. It turns out that her one friend got very ...... and started talking about her marriage and admitted that he husband is a cuckold. She told them all a lot of dirty details. My wife brought it up while we were laying in bed one night and told me about it and we ended up having sex that night and she was quite turned on and really wet. Since then, she has made a lot of little comments about that type of lifestyle. I don’t know where this is going. Is she turned on by what her friend is doing? Could it be she just finds it wild and likes to talk about it?
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- Thread starter WildTimes
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Sounds like she is considering trying the lifestyle and wants to get your reaction.
So you think she is testing my reaction to see if it is something I would try? It isn’t something that had ever been discussed before this trip. So just hearing it from a friend would be enough to make her want to try it?
I think so knowing the deep pool that is every woman's mind.
It sounds like she is intrigued by the idea. And, yes, it sounds like she is trying to evoke a reaction from you.
Maybe you need to be asking the questions of her. Like, what does she think about this lifestyle? Does she see opening up to another man? What sort of boundaries would she consider holding fast to?
Is she turned on by the idea of being shared or more like humiliating herself or you? I don’t believe there is a “one size fits all” for this lifestyle. Communication is absolutely essential to maintain a healthy relationship. Entering into this kind of lifestyle will challenge that. So, the healthier your relationship is now, the better off you will be. Don’t be afraid to be completely honest with each other.
If it both turns you on, maybe start slow with some role play in the bedroom. Or watch threesome or cuckold porn together.
Maybe you need to be asking the questions of her. Like, what does she think about this lifestyle? Does she see opening up to another man? What sort of boundaries would she consider holding fast to?
Is she turned on by the idea of being shared or more like humiliating herself or you? I don’t believe there is a “one size fits all” for this lifestyle. Communication is absolutely essential to maintain a healthy relationship. Entering into this kind of lifestyle will challenge that. So, the healthier your relationship is now, the better off you will be. Don’t be afraid to be completely honest with each other.
If it both turns you on, maybe start slow with some role play in the bedroom. Or watch threesome or cuckold porn together.
I haven’t really pushed for any more because I really am inside about it all. I know she was turned on when telling me the stories and we had sex. But I don’t know if it’s the idea of her friend doing wild stuff or if she is into it too.
I have watched cuckold porn and found it to be fun and exciting but haven’t really thought about what it would be like to actually do some of those things.
Ask her why she's been mentioning it lately. If she has diffculty answering give her a few multiple chocie options as answers.
Sharing isn't for everyone, the fantasy is so very different from reality, make sure you're ready for her answer and your reaction.
I’m still trying to consider how I would react to asking her about it and having her respond that she is either curious or interested in trying something like that.
i would think she has been thinking about this since the trip. in that time, she might be fantasizing about a particular guy, or two.
maybe she already has a candidate picked out, & is trying to work that into your conversations.
keep asking questions, & please keep us updated.
maybe she already has a candidate picked out, & is trying to work that into your conversations.
keep asking questions, & please keep us updated.
Maybe during your foreplay, have a little fun with it. Tell her as you are sucking her nipples and playing with her clit how a larger cock might feel for her. See how much wetter she gets.
Yes …and Yes, you better give it some deep thought pretty quickly so you can decide If you can live your life this way or word you prefer she just cheats on you and not tell you.. it’s not an easy lifestyle, and there is relationship risk.. but when it works, it’s amazing!!
while i am one of MrsHW's, biggest,fans & wish i had a wife, exactly, like her.
but i'm going to disagree with you.
the wife brought up the subject & continues to make comments, relative to her friend's LS.
we, always, talk about communication as a means to further a fantasy.
how is the hubby able to make a decision on anything if he doesn't know what his wife is thinking, or fantasying, about, if he doesn't ask questions?
secondly, asking questions might enlighten the wife to recognize possibilities, or problems, of which she was not aware.
asking questions in an inquisitive, non confrontational, manner is, rarely, a bad idea.
the hubby needs to determine if his wife is enamored with the LS, or disgusted by it. questions can only direct the conversation in the direction in which the wife's interest lies.
I want to find a way to casually nudge her and figure out exactly what she is thinking. Then maybe I can start to consider how I feel about it. I don’t want to outright scare her away from the conversation or hav her just close down. But I also don’t know how I will react if she is like “I want the lifestyle so bad”. It’s clear she is excited by what her friend tells her.
I think it’s both a lot of good advice. I need to see where she it at to determine where I am. I am becoming more aware that she is always thinking about it so it’s clearly on her mind. She seems to make a lot of comments that are open ended so she might be leading me toward a deeper talk.
Thanks. She has always been very open with me about her needs and we have been able to talk about anything. I can tell this kind of interests her but she is afraid to go further. Which could have to do with her being afraid of being judged. There are so many ways this could go wrong but also ways it could go right. It’s just all swirling around my head now and I’m scared to have an actual talk because I’m not sure where it will lead.
Dude don't hide from her... that is the WORST thing you could do now... she brought it up to you for a reason, and likely even suspects your own interest. Let it all out before you miss this boat.
If you're looking for a subtle approach, the Netflix series 'Easy' may be a good one to watch. A couple featured therein elect for an open relationship (at the wife's behest). Another couple features a young wife who cuckolds her husband while he sleeps in the next room with an old flame who is staying with them.
They both may be good conversation starters and/or fantasies to bring to the bedroom.
They both may be good conversation starters and/or fantasies to bring to the bedroom.
WildTimes: Just some thoughts.... Does your wife still drop hints?
Option 1) Is your wife a talker during sex? If so, just plant a seed of how sexy she is along with other man have told you they desire her. They love to slide their cocks into your "Hot Pussy"
Option 2) After some drinks watch some porn where other men are fucking a wife.... Then mention the above and sense her reaction..... The "Pussy Wet Test" always surfaces what your wife's inner thoughts are saying....even if she doesn't vocalize them.
Now the "Cock Test"....... when you think about another man's cock sliding into your wife's pussy, how hard does your cock get?
Hope that helps....
Option 1) Is your wife a talker during sex? If so, just plant a seed of how sexy she is along with other man have told you they desire her. They love to slide their cocks into your "Hot Pussy"
Option 2) After some drinks watch some porn where other men are fucking a wife.... Then mention the above and sense her reaction..... The "Pussy Wet Test" always surfaces what your wife's inner thoughts are saying....even if she doesn't vocalize them.
Now the "Cock Test"....... when you think about another man's cock sliding into your wife's pussy, how hard does your cock get?
Hope that helps....
