Beginning of convincing my gf

What should i do next?


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She knows what sex is we had intimacy except penetration, i will keep her virginity but after that i want her to be synchronize with this fantasy without any strings attached
OK, but she's already told you in no uncertain terms that she isn't interested. Keep it up and maybe she'll just decide you're too "perverted" for her and call it off, then find somebody she's more compatible with in life.
 
So what to do next
i think you are putting the cart before the horse. if this is a fantasy that you, absolutely, need to happen, do her a favor & move on without her.

you two haven't had sex yet & you are talking about other people? if she is smart, she'll run for the hills.

or, better yet, show her this site & let her read this thread.
 
Why on earth would you want your GIRLFRIEND who is a VIRGIN to be fucked by some other guy whom she might actually fall in love with? Leave this entire thing alone, stop talking to her about it and either marry her as planned or find somebody who is down with your fantasy. This WILL ABSOLUTELY ...... your relationship if you let it continue. You aren't even married and she doesn't even know what sex is yet. She has no idea what she will want in the future, just as she told you.
wow perfect advice
 
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i realy think that you should leave it for a while, maybe bring it up every few months just mention it without asking for anything to keep it in her mind, but until you are both having sex it may be scary for her and too confronting. as long as she knows about your desires, then you can work towards it later on
 
Im in relation with a girl for 4 years now she is 21 im 22 years her body is 34-28-32
As far i know she never watched porn she find those gross and im her 1st relationship where she is my 2nd , also we both are virgin planning to marry after job which is approx 3 years from now on


So after a lot days of headscrathing i finally told her about my fantasy of MMF threesome, so she is in girls hostel in another city, i did video call and told I'm missing her etc then i told , that recently im having a fantasy, she asked about it i told its threesome fantasy , and i make it clear thats its not that i have reduced my love or want to get other women thats why suggesting, and im still possessive about her but its emotionally, to be safe i told her that im not sure about this fantasy since we haven't tried practical sex yet , but in future i may ask you about this stuff

So her reply : "i agree with your point that 1st marriage and all,, with time what fantasy will kick in me i dont know , but this thrresome or dp is gross to me i wont do these"

I told im not convincing you just telling if it was a stranger and we never see each other after

She : " you are o with seeing me with someone else?"

I : " as long you treat other person as a like sex toy and dont get emotional attached, and its a stranger and we wont meet again and im with you in the action , with all this paramet im ok"

Then she told nah its gross and told that she take physical relation seriously and dont want extra partner according to her physical comes from emotion so just for entertainment she cant have sex with other she isn't that type

Considering her anger and asked her is it impossible for her to not getting string attached after one night stand on which she said no, then i said ok leave it then.

She : "we both are enough good no need to spoil the relationship "








Now what should i do next
Better try it after marriage bruh 🙂