That's a wonderful insight. She won't let me pick, based upon HER criteria, NOT mine. Each 'candidate' has an issue, too small, too big, too fat, too skinny, too old, too young, didn't like what they wrote, didn't like what they didn't write, too close, too far.
I did coerce her for us to meet 2 guys. One we both agreed was totally unacceptable. The other seemed perfect. The she drops a shoe, she needs to have a connection with they guy. I remind her it's abut sex, it's not about a connection, that's contrary. She has a connection, with me. So I acquess and suggest we invite him over for drinks, she goes bonkers, not in our house I tell her I suggested that for her comfort level in known surroundings putting her in absolute control. I suggest we meet elsewhere, she says she be uncomfortable with me there I remind this is a team sport. But again I give in and suggest she meet with him alone before we meet with him. She again says no, not sure if he's the right guy, OK, what's wrong with him, silence.
I did coerce her for us to meet 2 guys. One we both agreed was totally unacceptable. The other seemed perfect. The she drops a shoe, she needs to have a connection with they guy. I remind her it's abut sex, it's not about a connection, that's contrary. She has a connection, with me. So I acquess and suggest we invite him over for drinks, she goes bonkers, not in our house I tell her I suggested that for her comfort level in known surroundings putting her in absolute control. I suggest we meet elsewhere, she says she be uncomfortable with me there I remind this is a team sport. But again I give in and suggest she meet with him alone before we meet with him. She again says no, not sure if he's the right guy, OK, what's wrong with him, silence.