Okay, so my wife is adopted, and her younger brother (6 years her age) is getting married in April. I have been conned into organising the stag do, and with the stripper. Problem is my wife wants to be the entrainment, and suggesting a belly dancing outfit and mask so they don’t see it’s her. 8 of her ‘family’ will be there, and 12 other men. What should I say?