Ah that suck.Well, long story short, we'll have to start our search again. First little hiccup and his true colors showed; communication was lacking and that's a big one for me. Still have a lot to learn but we'll get there.
Yeah, but it is what it is. He was younger and that was a first for me so maybe I was naive to think that he had what I needed in terms of communication.Ah that suck.
So what was he lacking in his communication?Yeah, but it is what it is. He was younger and that was a first for me so maybe I was naive to think that he had what I needed in terms of communication.
Sorry to hear that, was really hoping this would go well for you.Well, long story short, we'll have to start our search again. First little hiccup and his true colors showed; communication was lacking and that's a big one for me. Still have a lot to learn but we'll get there.
You can only take people at their word but yeah, pretty disappointing yet expected from that generation unfortunately....Yeah, but it is what it is. He was younger and that was a first for me so maybe I was naive to think that he had what I needed in terms of communication.
You and me both!Sorry to hear that, was really hoping this would go well for you.
We're 40 and 46, and have been together for 21 years. He is about to be 34.how old are you, folks & how long married? how old was your date?
Wish you could turn my wife onto this lifestyle.I was to press @Timid into a chastity cage and help his wife explore more.......
YES!!!Hubby and I have been talking to a new gentleman fora few weeks now. I was hesitant to write about him since the last one ended prematurely, but we met for lunch today and I think it went really well. There was a really good connection between all of us and I don't think anyone really wanted it to end but he had plans. Anyway, I hope there's a lot more to share as the relationship develops.
With all this communication, have you told him about Denial December?Just wanted to share a little something. Hubby and I have been talking a lot lately and I have to admit this has been a new level of communicating. I thought we talked about everything already, but this past week it seems like I've been digging deeper in my thoughts and feelings. So much so that we did not last for no nut November!! LOL , oh well, we tried. Anyway, last night hubby said that I've been giddy ever since lunch last weekend and he's right. I find myself smiling as I have random thoughts about "D" and what our life can be like together in the future.
This is a wonderful story.Just wanted to share a little something. Hubby and I have been talking a lot lately and I have to admit this has been a new level of communicating. I thought we talked about everything already, but this past week it seems like I've been digging deeper in my thoughts and feelings. So much so that we did not last for no nut November!! LOL , oh well, we tried. Anyway, last night hubby said that I've been giddy ever since lunch last weekend and he's right. I find myself smiling as I have random thoughts about "D" and what our life can be like together in the future.
Hey, who's side are you on anyway???? 😱With all this communication, have you told him about Denial December?
I am going to guess she did not mean new level of communication as if we were lacking communication. From what I can tell she was apprehensive about sharing some thoughts thinking it would hurt me. We talked about my support of this relationship she is developing and she decided to let me know some of those inner thoughts that I suspected may have been there but just were not being shared. I know, I know "what thoughts" nothing really big (in my mind) but things like she is REALLY feeling this guy, has been thinking of the things she wants to do with him, how often she thinks of him and the things she is already thinking she is open to even though it is still early in their relationship.What prompted this new level of communication
I don't know if it was anything special; we just started talking after our date. With the questions and the answers we kept diving deeper and deeper. Just learning along the way is the best way to explain it.What prompted this new level of communication
Plus, there was the last person I was talking to that I liked as well. I have been kind of holding back with this new one because I feel as though I am just liking everyone. Although in reality it takes a lot for me to really fall for anyone so I think I was just trippin' in my own thought bubble.I am going to guess she did not mean new level of communication as if we were lacking communication. From what I can tell she was apprehensive about sharing some thoughts thinking it would hurt me. We talked about my support of this relationship she is developing and she decided to let me know some of those inner thoughts that I suspected may have been there but just were not being shared. I know, I know "what thoughts" nothing really big (in my mind) but things like she is REALLY feeling this guy, has been thinking of the things she wants to do with him, how often she thinks of him and the things she is already thinking she is open to even though it is still early in their relationship.
Obviously, she can correct me if I have misspoken or misunderstood anything.