I responded earlier, but have a bit more time now..........I am COMPLETELY AMAZED at the number of guys that have NEVER had their cock sucked, and if they did it was a half-hearted "i can barely not puke" type situation by the woman!!! Now admittedly, male understanding of cleanliness and proper peri-care is NOT something typically taught by parents over the years, so peeling back a foreskin is UNHEARD of by a significant percentage of the uncircumcised male population........which I find particularly disgusting!! But it is sad but true.
And even MORE amazed at the number of men who end up in long term committed relationships, or marriages, and have NO idea what their GF/Wife likes or is willing to do sexually?!?! How does this happen?? WHAT do you talk about before marriage or committing to an exclusive relationship??? As I noted before, I may be the oddball here, but I would NEVER consider making any kind of a relationship comittment without knowing EVERYTHING about the person I am committing to, and if there is ANY ASPECT of their life they are ...... to be 100% open about and discuss at will, the BEST they will ever be is a side piece of ass in my life. Something I use when I need to............not someONE I would commit to for a long term relationship of any kind.
Over the years, there have been a couple women I was sexual with that would not consider sucking my cock, and I don't mean by me ASKING for it either......I mean they initiated it. ALL of the women I considered girlfriends dod this very willingly and usually initiated it. The couple that refused let me know that BEFORE we got sexual, and I was willing to fuck them (NO oral on my part to them either then) and get off, but I had ZERO interest in them beyond that. And I don't really like oral sex to completion. I am not circumcised, and the head of my cock is SUPER sensitive (especially during orgasm which is FANTASTIC inside a vagina) so the additional tongue/teeth contact during orgasm is actually a detriment to my enjoyment. Prior to orgasm tho, I LOVE oral skills to get me up and hard for the real deal, something my wife is particularly FANTASTIC at. I do enjoy hearing about her sucking off her Lovers and swallowing their sperm........just doesn't do much for me personally.
Like her Boss/Lover who she had a relationship for 11 years.........he was well in to his 50's and had NEVER had his cock sucked!!! Was married and had two kids. Apparently sex was NOT ta significant part of their relationship, it was to make kids. My wife was the FIRST woman to put his cock in her mouth, and he near had a heart attack!! And when he came in her mouth (ar her urging, he wanted to stop) and she held his sperm in her mouth, and kneeling in front of him and looking in to his eyes opened her mouth to show him his sperm in her mouth, and slipped her tongue thru it a few times and then swallowed.............he was HOOKED!! LOLLOL For a couple weeks, it was ALL he wanted but he had to sit in a chair from then on (he does have a heart condition and got dizzy the first time) and she knelt in front of him and let him watch her minister to his needs.
To the point..I would LOVE to hear from those guys that have significant others that do NOT perform this oral skill for them and HOW they ended up in thsi situation. No guy is really going to admit this openly here tho.......lol, EVERYONE here gets their cock sucked by their porn star personal performer wives every time they want it, right?? Like they have sex at your will and stop when you cum and its all over and you are happy, the horse goes back in the barn. Amazed at how many guys have THAT conception of thos this works too....but another post.
I have listened to MANY guys tho go on and ON about how their wife NEVER sucks their cock, they thought it would change AFTER marriage (?????). HOW does anyone get all the way to marriage and not KNOW this? Like I said, I may be the oddball here, but I talk about EVERYTHING with the women in my life, everything that matters. And not just sex........money, credit histories, possible family traits that would not be good to pass along, cleanliness, how often they shower, wash their hair, douche,........could write ALL day aobut things I discuss PRIOR to making a committment. And if I am expected to confine my sexual needs to one person, they damned well are going to take care of ALL those needs......its not something I would find out alter they "don't do"!!
So come on guys that have NOT experienced this....there are a LOT of you on here, one can tell by the postings howmuch TRUE expereince one really has. Talk about how you end up in relationships of ANY kind that oral sex is NOT part of the arrangement despite your deisres for it. I honestly would like to understand how this happens to so MANY people.
CW