Maybe search for the ebook titled, “Hotwife, Cuckold” by Ruby Small. It is a real life first person account from a female’s perspective. It may also help with understanding the value of good ground rules. These were instrumental for this couple in order to protect their marriage. I short, they needed these rules so both got what they needed in order to make this lifestyle successful and fulfilling for both.Yes my wife too googled cuckold and the description led her to go no further in consideration ( not that there was much in the first place lol ) . I know essentially it’s describes it but it’s really cold and as you say a bit frightening