I was also groomed in a way, by an in-law of the next generation to mine. Each time I explictly type out who it was, the system redacts the nouns out. They are all adults so why the censorship?
I noticed she was slowly changing her demeanour toward me. She used to be distant and suddenly became quite friendly and close. I thought it was nice. But then I thought I noticed a mix of flirtations which included an overt display of cleavage, ass while bending over precisely when I was in the room and discussions of her body and lady parts.
Was she grooming me for what came next? Was I suppose to say STOP to what could be construed as simply family friendliness? I say grooming or manipulating because soon, she was asking me how a blouse looked on her? I replied in a polite manner that it suited her. She indicated she was wearing a push up bra which was a way of saying "look at my cleavage" Similar thing happened on day she strode in with leggins. Asked me if they werent too sheer, as she stretched out in front of me. She knew she was teasing me also. Yet I felt that if I gave her a cold answer, I would hurt her feelings or "shut her out". The final sign was when we were both left alone in the house during the mornings and she would stride down in a tanktop and braless and sit next to me to have long conversations while I worked from home on my computer.
Was that grooming for the eventual affair we had?