Average size hard cock here at 5.5" but tiny soft at 2". My wife is a petite Asian and thought my hard 5.5" has huge when we met. After a few visits to nude resorts she came to realize that it was average when hard and embarrassingly small at 2" soft. Wife has called my flaccid cock "cute", and comments on bigger cocks and enjoys seeing them either live at the nude resorts, or when we watch porn.
I do enjoy SPH a bit so I took to jerking off before we went out at nude resorts to ensure that at game time I would be as small as possible while we walked around - so guys would see a sexy petite Asian MILF accompanied by a skinny white guy with a 2" cocktail wiener. She was usually the only Asian there so already the focus of attention. Single guys swinging 5,6,7" soft would see me and (rightfully) think I had brought her there to display / offer her up to others and she would get hit on by them, one after another, as if I wasn't even there. At first she was uncomfortable being nude and having to verbally parry the aggressive come-ons from guys who were generally muscular and hung. But she quickly started to enjoy it and treat it as a game as there was no real threat of anything happening that she didn't want to.
My favorite interaction was when a big heavily muscled hispanic guy with an absolutely huge soft cock chatted her up and asked her if she thought she could handle a session with him given what she "usually had to deal with" and gestured at my soft turtling dick. She just smiled and said she didn't like men who were too big because she had a very small vagina. The guy laughed and walked off... and despite having just jerked off it was the only time I actually got hard in public. Needless to say the whole scenario around being emabarrased and humilated by bigger cocks in front of my wife with my tiny one on display was over-the-top exciting.