Any husband have a wife that tries to protect her husbands ego during a relationship with a bull?

My wife and I have been together since high school, which was 46 years ago. We are best friends and lovers and been through the best and worst life has to offer. This includes two kids (one with disability), a military officer carrer, another career with a manufacturer, and the death of parents. We were both virgins and for many years only had each other. We grew together and that includes sexually. My wife at 60 looks like 40 and is a size 4, 5'7 blonde bombshell which still turns me on beyond words. Early in my military career I once noticed during a military dance she was turned on by a lead singer that was flirting with her when we were on stage. He even talked with her during breaks and invited us to an after party, which she declined. The guy was handsome and was smooth, but she denied being attracted to him, yet banged the ...... out of me till all hours of the night. So what do you think? Yeah. That started me on the cuckold trek.

So that trek was delayed although discussed until she reached 40 and kids were out of house and she was in sexual peek. We had found a younger long term married bull which lasted about 8 years, but only got together maybe 1 every two months. She was always pleasant but due to her very religious background, did not like to admit her likeness of it to herself or me. The relationship ended when the bull lost his job and could not travel to our area. My wife would not talk about it, or even admit she enjoyed. FYI,we always did things together that includes watching me sucking cock and giving him anal. Thought I would never do that, neither did he. So she shut down, part due to depression of the abrupt departure, part due to guilt and part due to health issues.

Moving forward, to our retirement, moving back to our childhood area to support dying parents. Her and I realized something else was missing. I was slowing due to prostate issues causing ED, and she just not feeling attractive. Having lost our second parent I reached out FF and found some bulls near us this time. I presented their bios to her and told her we need to feel life again and that she needed not to feel guilty as it is my extension of love to her. Again committed to always doing as couple. Even told her I would receive anal since it was a turn on for her. With open communication and depression she said I was correct that life was passing us by, and was not always good to us, and having no other vices that we should try this with another long term potential. After much searching, discussions, and in person meeting we settled on the perfect candidate that is slightly younger, attractive, verile, and well hung that wants true FWB as he is tired of married life and is dedicated to his young children he shares custody on partail basis. So we hooked up sexualy for first time.

I said he was hung, and boy was he. I could barely fit my mouth around his cock. She had comments of OMG, and OH Wow when he entered her and finished inside her. Rarely ever that vocal with me, at least lately and never like that with last bull that was not any bigger than I. Her whole mood changed to overwhelmingly happy and still is after 4 days. She made dinner for us afterward as we were hoping for another round after recovery. It was not all that late and he said he needed to get home to get up early for work. He said immediately asked if we could do it again in a couple of days. We agreed and saw him for dinner tonight out, and tomorrow again at our house which he says will expand farther. Can't wait!

So after he left, my wife immediately grabbed a recently new large dildo which she previously tried and said she did not like and started banging herself with it. OBviously I stepped back to the plate for more fun. So I laughed and told her afterward teasingly that she liked it so much she really wanted another round. She said it wasn't and that she just wanted to get me going and wanted try this dildo. Yeah right. After telling her about her previous comments about the dildo, sheepishly admitted that she wanted to ride him again, but did not want to coerce him and make me feel bad. I told her that I would'nt and that I was proud of her, that she never needed to apologize or feel like she was disrespecting me. I reminded her we were in this together and he is an extension of my love to her, and a gift of some enjoyment I can't possibly achieve, especially given how big and thick he is. She laughed then and admitted it was mind blowing. Then reached over kissed me passionately.

So question, any males have such a relationship with their wife that they try to protect your ego and also their extremely conservative upbringing after having sex with their bull?
 
Given what you have said, I'd say you have a lot of blessings to be thankful for. My wife and I have been married 47 years and she came from an extremely conservative religious household. If your wife accepts your bisexual activity and is turned on by it, that alone is huge leap for a conservative wife. My wife might tease about me doing something like that but she would never actually want it to happen.

You've got lots to thankful for. Just the fact that your conservative wife "tried" it for 8 years (if you can call 8 years trying it) is beyond what many people here aspire to. It's too bad that she could never admit out loud whether she liked it or not. I recognize that attitude in my own wife. She doesn't or can't let herself say out loud that she likes sex or talk about sexual things outside the bedroom. I swear it's social conditioning that has built this barrier.

Most of all, (in my opinion only) is that having a wife that is sensitive to the ego of their husband is biggest blessing of all. She's aware enough that she knows what the opposite will produce. She probably CAN'T enjoy herself if she has the slightest notion that you are being hurt in any way. I've read tons of posts and threads where the wife was intentionally ambivalent about her husband's ego and they came off seeming uncaring, mean spirited and self-centered and worse they seem to get a perverse thrill at tormenting their husbands. It seems like they like that as much as the sex.

In 46 years you two have a lot of history. You've been through a lot together. Your wife obviously cherishes you! This is just my opinion, but rather than focusing on your ED or other reasons you can't satisfy her, instead focus on telling her how much you appreciate her making and keeping sex fun for you. She's the key to your sexual satisfaction. Be proud that she cares about your feelings. Let her feel proud about that too!

Just my 2 cents worth (and that's probably all it's worth)!
 
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Everyone is different in how they deal with this Lifestyle. I was a nice looking popular guy growing up with many friends. I also had a good job and one of the few that had a nice new car and a fair amount of spending money. I found out early that I even though I had been blessed in many ways I was very inadequate in others. I have a cock that is unusually thin and even earned me the name of pencil dick. I also had prematue ejaculation issues that did not help matters.

For me it was just my life and I just dealt with it and never developed an ego in regards to sex. As I have posted on this forum many times my exwife (the hottest girl in our group) openly screwed many of my friends and coworkers. I was fortunate that something that would have been devastating to others guys and was actually a huge turn-on for me.

She loved the sex , I did experience some issues dealing with some humiliation, jealousy and embarrassment but the turn on was much stronger than those issues. We had a overall great marriage for 8 years before other issues caused us to split up.

I have since remarried and my wife and I now have a similar agreement. As long as our core relationship is healthy she has my blessing to explore different opportunities. Our social dynamic has changed so now things and done very much on the down low.