Anal Sex

I am a husband here 45yo.. Never tried anal with my wife as she says " Not there" whenever i try to touch or finger her anal slightly during sex.. in contrast when she is in mood and horny she moans when i lick her ass or insert my finger slightly.....she let me lick it as much as i need and she moans so loudly even louder than i fuck or lick her pussy....I think my wife feels uneasy thinking of my finger or cock get dirty or something not that she doesnt like the feeling.....my wife doesnt have constipation as well....Any idea how should i proceed and how to make her comfortable with it? Does she require preparation before going for fingering or anal sex always..? i mean enema or something? is it always requires? Anyone got experience of getting your cock or finger get dirt with poo ? pls be openly comment..
 
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