I know and I’m thinking that more and more as this ...... unfolds . She never has my back either and never agrees with anything much I say - it all runs seemingly opposites to her . This all started when one night as we were fucking her and she sort of nervous laughed - I asked what was up and she said she couldn’t feel me up her - now I’ve done a power of shsggibg and have been told quite a few times I have a big cock / good cock so it was her that had a slack puss . Anyhoo thinking of her pleasure this set me on the road to finding her a bigger cock to pleasure her . I should have just thought of my own self and it’s steadily gone downhill from there . Thought I was marrying a slut since she told me quite proudly about fucking her boss and sisters guy but as the years go on she’s just getting more prudish , more vanilla and more narcissistic towards me .
Am I right ??
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I think you have a decision to make ,go or stay,
Or find her the biggest cock on the planet to fuck her and see how she feels then,👍🤣
Maybe you should just "replace" the toys with larger toys. Leave it in the box where she left the ones you "replaced". She'll know you know and if she really can't help herself she'll use them. I guess eventually she'd take to being better at hiding her toys but all the same she'd know you know.
Oh yeah man! The inconsistencies is the the mind boggler to me and have been since I've been on this and another forum. Something that is similar in my particular case as yours is the "pervert" label. My wife knows I watch porn. She doesn't like watching it and tolerates my watching it. We tried watching it together and it just didn't work.
I've gotten to the habit of mentioning every time after we have sex, "Wow! That was fun! SO MUCH BETTER THAN MASTURBATING!" I think she's beginning to understand that I'd rather have sex with her than to masturbate to porn. We've been having sex more frequently than ever before. We had sex three times a week two weeks in a row. Not bad for a pair of 66 year olds.
She's even relaxed her attitude about "dirty talk" while in bed? I asked her to talk dirty some while we were having sex to keep me excited. Before, when the "pervert" label was firmly in place she couldn't let her head go there. Now that has changed and she has gone from tame vanilla to stuff that surprises me. That may not seem like much to most here but for me it has been significant and rewarding. I'll take things getting better over the alternative.
I'm serious, you should replace those toys! Do it, at a minimum you'll be entertained with whatever outcome. What will she do?
Congrats looks like you might at least have partially cracked her code and hope it continues for you both . In my case I just can’t find a way to get my wife to relax or soften up in her attitudes to sex and sexual stuff . She loves her vibrators and they’re sex toys right so again her double standards are eye opening . But seems like I’m a pervert for liking things which she frowns upon / won’t discuss or attempt to try at least once unless it’s only to further her ‘label’ of me but will use those because ‘she ‘ likes them . Anyway I would like to wish you and your family a happy Xmas and health and prosperity in the new year 😀
I don’t think you can go any bigger on vibrators than ones she has - maybe your thinking of dildos? . I’ve tried a cock sleeve but not with great success and she won’t try dildos ? , even though she says she can’t feel me in her unless it’s doggy . Again she never asks for doggy ?? . Got her a sex machine to try that - she used it sort of grudgingly a couple of times - said yes I think I would cum with that but it’s been sitting in the garage for over a year !!! I just do t get her one bit
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