Am I a cuckold???

Thanks, I really like her, she is like a pornstar...
For whatever this is worth, I'm skeptical too. I will say that no, you are not a cuckold. You have a girlfriend and not a wife. If this is true, this is a girlfriend you are going to lose soon enough. It's bad enough that you have sexual performance and penis size issues and she's found somebody to fix that problem for her. Worse, you are forsing strife in your relationship, to the point of actually storming out and ...... elsewhere every couple of weeks. She won't put up with this and she should not. You admit to doing this so that you can live your fantasy and allow her the opportunity to enjoy time with somebody she really enjoys spending her time with. Not only that, but she gets regular sex with a stud. Your entire relationship will be over soon and you won't have her in real life at all. She isn't married to you and she has no reason to stay with you. If those pics are real, she can have a much better mate for her lifetime and a much more considerate HUSBAND at some point. Sorry, but drama and strife in a relationship, especially where there are no marital bonds, are bad juju...
 
For whatever this is worth, I'm skeptical too. I will say that no, you are not a cuckold. You have a girlfriend and not a wife. If this is true, this is a girlfriend you are going to lose soon enough. It's bad enough that you have sexual performance and penis size issues and she's found somebody to fix that problem for her. Worse, you are forsing strife in your relationship, to the point of actually storming out and ...... elsewhere every couple of weeks. She won't put up with this and she should not. You admit to doing this so that you can live your fantasy and allow her the opportunity to enjoy time with somebody she really enjoys spending her time with. Not only that, but she gets regular sex with a stud. Your entire relationship will be over soon and you won't have her in real life at all. She isn't married to you and she has no reason to stay with you. If those pics are real, she can have a much better mate for her lifetime and a much more considerate HUSBAND at some point. Sorry, but drama and strife in a relationship, especially where there are no marital bonds, are bad juju...
I accept your opinion, but I disagree in some points:

- Marriage is not going to forse anybody to stay with anybody. Either you are married or you have a long enough relationship, the engagement is the same.
- Yes, I have bad sexual performance, but why this should be a reason for leaving me?? Most of the guys here suffer that and their wives remain at their side. It is just your opinion, but it doesn't make at all. And its suposed you are a gold memeber and shoul know about this...
- I love her and I'm terrified by the idea of losing her. But at the same time I can't stop thinking about how she enjoyed with that fucking guy.
- I hate that guy... so this is one of the reasons I think I'm not a cuckold
- Its true that I'm turned on by the idea of seeing her or knowing she is having sex with a hung guy. But this fantasy is only in my mind since that day.
- Its false that she is currently fucking another guy. I repeated several times I have no clues about this. But every weekend I leave, I jerk at my parent's home thinking she is doing it... And what??? I know its weird, but it is what it is. I cannot control it. I imagine her in the same way I listened her that night.

But... thanks for taking your time for answering.
 
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I accept your opinion, but I disagree in some points:

- Marriage is not going to forse anybody to stay with anybody. Either you are married or you have a long enough relationship, the engagement is the same.
- Yes, I have bad sexual performance, but why this should be a reason for leaving me?? Most of the guys here suffer that and their wives remain at their side. It is just your opinion, but it doesn't make at all. And its suposed you are a gold memeber and shoul know about this...
- I love her and I'm terrified by the idea of losing her. But at the same time I can't stop thinking about how she enjoyed with that fucking guy.
- I hate that guy... so this is one of the reasons I think I'm not a cuckold
- Its true that I'm turned on by the idea of seeing her or knowing she is having sex with a hung guy. But this fantasy is only in my mind since that day.
- Its false that she is currently fucking another guy. I repeated several times I have no clues about this. But every weekend I leave, I jerk at my parent's home thinking she is doing it... And what??? I know its weird, but it is what it is. I cannot control it. I imagine her in the same way I listened her that night.

But... thanks for taking your time for answering.
I think you just really need to have a long, sincere talk with your girlfriend. If you don't establish some honest communication, you're just going to lose her to your suspicions and worries.
 
I think you just really need to have a long, sincere talk with your girlfriend. If you don't establish some honest communication, you're just going to lose her to your suspicions and worries.
Thanks. I know. But for me its like I already lost her, so I'm delaying the situation...

And, well... I don't want to offen anybody in this forum. But at the same time I feel a bit ashamed of being considered a cuckold. And I'm worried about telling her and after that, is she doesn't accept it, probably she will tell that to all of her friends!! Man... We live in the same place, same city... Know the same group of people... I cannot imagine what the rest of our group of friends woud think about me.
 
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Hi, after some days receiving advices from some people of this forum, I finally did it and I directly approached her with my confession.

I'll paste here my answer in DM i left to @bluemax , an incredible guy that helped me during the last days I was totally lost and close to take bad decisions. He has been guiding me in the process. So first of all, thanks a lot bluemax.

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I did it yesterday and it was much better than expected. My gf didn't overreact as I would expect. She said our sex life wasn't good at all, and she was sincere about her feelings. She told me she still loved me but she has been dreaming not with the guy, but with the sex she had with him during that weekend.

I asked her to explain me in detail, as we were having a very open conversation. I said, no complains from my side even if she knows I hate that guy.

She said about me something I already know... I last nothing. She doesn't have time to warm up with me. She said is not bad, buy she only feels a few waves of pleasure when she rubs her clit against me, when she is on top. But she is not a clit girl, apparently she only cums from vaginal estimulation. And my penis is too short and too thin to allow her to reach that.

I asked her directly about the sex with that guy, and she was kinda nervous before answering. But once she saw I was relaxed, she explained me in detail.

She told me the guy is an idiot (what surprised me! 😅) but in sex, he knows what he is doing. He is a very tall and strong guy, so my girl is like a fuck doll for him. She told me she was very excited when he moved her with that big arms from one side of the bed to the other. They were kissing and she felt a huge bulg in his trousers and in that moment she realized that guy was huge.

We were talking about this in our bed, and I had a hard on 😑 I was kind of embarrased but she looked at me and said "Wow... Now I understand that cuckold thing!! You really like to know about that weekend?!?!" And I said "Yes... its strange... In some way I feel hurt, but knowing you had so much pleasure... it turns me a lot" And se smiled like... man... she smiled a lot a gave me a huge hug. I was completely freaking out...

She asked me if I wanted to know all details, and I said yes.
Aparently this guy eated her pussy a lot... That means... a lot! I normally do, but she told me he did longer that usual. After that she tried to suck him but she said it was impossible, because she coudln't fit even the head of it. My GF is not that expert doing that and I guess the guy realized quick. He layed her on the bed, opened her legs and put his cock on her belly... She sais her penis reached the lower part of her tits... She was shocked 🤯 she was stroking him in that position and said she would need 4 hands to cover all lenght of it... and so thick that her fingers were far from touching. She almost needed the two hands to cover that girth. You can imagine my face while she was explaining to me all of this... I was...😨😨😨😨 but hard as a stone. I think I had the largest hard on ever!! 😂

She said the first moment this guy aproached his cock to her pussy, she was so lubbed that the guy was impressed. The guy put only the tip of his cock in, and Elisa started to do the leg shaking almost from the very first moment! Is that normal?!?!?!!? (This is a question just for me!! Its this normal?!?!?)) Se said she was so turned on, she had the first orgasm after 1 minute of being penetrated, and he put only the half of it.

The first day they did it three times, but very long sessions. This is the day I listened from outside. Aparently I arriaved in the second or third, because she said, she started to enjoy a lot only after a while...

She said she cumed between 12 and 15 times... But the day after she cumed even more.

The story is too long to tell you all details, but as a sumary, is ok.

In conclussion, after two hours talking about this, we had sex. I cumed in seconds, but due to the accumulated during those two hours... But she did one think she never did before. She put her dildo on my dick and rode me until she cumed hard. It was the first time I saw her cuming in that way, and it was very exciting to see her from that perspective.

After shower, and once calmed down. I said she could meet again this guy, but just for sex. She was extremely surprised about my decission and I expected her to say "no, this gay is an idiot... we'll another one" 😅 but instead, she said "Ok! I'll aks him to come this weekend you are with your parents" And she took her phone and sent him a message in front of me 😂😂😂 """

So next weekend if I'm lucky It will be my "second" cuckold experience
 
As long as she doesn't have feelings for him, and only for YOU, she keeps you informed about EVERYTHING she does, and you are OK with her sometimes getting her satisfaction from HIS cock, then this could be the start of something good for you both!
 
As long as she doesn't have feelings for him, and only for YOU, she keeps you informed about EVERYTHING she does, and you are OK with her sometimes getting her satisfaction from HIS cock, then this could be the start of something good for you both!
Yes, that was exactly the deal. Even if I hate that guy with all my heart and I already had arrange a date with a guy from this forum. But it's true that she should be the one selecting her sex partners.

But as you said, always she follows those rules set by both of us.
 
Thanks. I know. But for me its like I already lost her, so I'm delaying the situation...

And, well... I don't want to offen anybody in this forum. But at the same time I feel a bit ashamed of being considered a cuckold. And I'm worried about telling her and after that, is she doesn't accept it, probably she will tell that to all of her friends!! Man... We live in the same place, same city... Know the same group of people... I cannot imagine what the rest of our group of friends woud think about me.
I think your worries are like many hubbies, I'd think it be much easier on hubby if only a chosen few know.
 
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Hi all,

First thanks for your comments. That really helped me during the last two weeks.

We finally did it and she said was fucked this weekend by a hung guy. The same she fucked during our break up.

I went to my parents house on Friday and came back today. We didn't have too many contact during the weekend, as she told me they were completely focused on sex all the time.

She is very very tired now but she gave me some hints about the weekend. He fucked her 8 times on Friday and another 6 yesterday, because she had her pussy completely irritated.

She told me she had more than 10 orgasms per sex session, where she never cumed even once with my dick. I was extremely shocked but at the same time happy and turned on.

This guy last more than 2 hours pounding her like an animal... 😵‍💫
 
Hi,

I just post this in order to know is this already happened to other members of this site.

Last weekend we did the big step. She spent the whole weekend with a bull, and according to her, the sex was amazing. We only crossed some messages during the weekend because they were always "very busy" 🙄

I came back on Sunday and she was fucking tired, so I didn't want to push more, even if I was anxious to know more details. Yesterday we couldn't talk. And today I tried to bring the topic and she said she felt like guilty.

I asked her if she wanted to stop doing this and she only said "NOOOOOO!!" I'm kinda lost now....

Is it normal that a wife/ GF has these feelings after the first encounter??

Thanks
 
Hi,

I think some girls can have these feelings after the first time, yes. At least in my experience...

Btw. Are you looking for another bull?? She is fucking awesome!!!! I'm Italian, so we are not too far 😏
 
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Hi,

I think some girls can have these feelings after the first time, yes. At least in my experience...

Btw. Are you looking for another bull?? She is fucking awesome!!!! I'm Italian, so we are not too far 😏
Thanks. No, no looking for other bulls in this moment. At least not from other countries.

I met another guy from our country here and we're close to meet. But let's see what she thinks about this.