you answered my question as I was asking it. I realized that a long time ago. Husbands tend to "make love" to their wives. I fuck them. I use them. The funny thing, the more I use them to please my cock, the more they seem to enjoy it. I think part of it feeds their ego, their sense of attractiveness, that I am so under the spell of their beauty I lose controlI don't usually but sometimes you just have to read the situation. Sometimes she just wants to be treated like a slut without having to say so. She definitely lets other guys treat her rougher and she likes it.