Sure! And I am so glad that is happening for you. A big WIN !
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Imagine that you decided that you and your wife should do some thrilling things together. Skydiving is thrilling. You ask your wife if she is wants to go skydiving this weekend. Her answer is likely to be "Fuck No! Are you insane?"
Too much, too soon. On the other hand, indoor mountain climbing, with safety cables attached to your waist, might be as far as she is willing to go. As you two worked your way up the ladder of dangerous sport thrills, she might even consider bungee jumping off a tall bridge. Seeking thrills, like any addiction, requires ever-stronger hits. Note that she could actually skydive this weekend, as nothing physical stops her, only her fear and concern, which are mental states. In order to leap out of the airplane at 40,000 feet, requires at the very least the belief that you can do it—without that belief, you will remain in the safety of the airplane.
Mental stretching is a slow but essential process. The mind must be stretched to view some activity as being at least possible, although not necessarily desirable. Fantasies and roleplaying are the yoga of mind stretching.
I once had an attractive but mentally stiff girlfriend, at least with regards to sex. For example, the thought of having sex in each room of the house was too great a stretch for her. She needed serious mental stretching.
While making love, I told her sexual fantasies, which she responded to with enthusiasm. The fantasies were either my own or stolen from previous girlfriends or based on a movie or TV show we had recently seen. On rare occasions, she came up with a fantasy. As my cock filled her vagina, and as her ears filled with my pillow talk, her mind stretched. From fantasies, we moved onto to my telling her of actual and possible sexual situations. For example, I had read about sexual surrogates, who—as part of a patient's therapy—had sex with the patient. I showed her the article. She made a face as she read it.
Later that night, once I had her sexually warmed up, I mentioned the article again. I asked her how the female sexual surrogate's boyfriend or husband must feel about the sexual surrogate's workday. Her answer was along the lines that he must feel terrible. I agreed that most men would, but not all. I revealed that I would certainly enjoy hearing about her "damn day" at work if she were a sexual surrogate. She instantly repulsed the notion, finding the job degrading and dirty. I explained that the sexual surrogates were not prostitutes (if nothing else, they were far more expensive) and that they performed needed aid. I gave the example of their helping men with sexual problems, such as premature ejaculation. She wanted to know how that problem could be treated.
My answer was that if she was a sexual surrogate (notice how I had just talked past the sale), she would insert his hard penis in her, while she straddle him in the cowgirl position, but she and he would not move. His hard cock would be in her, but no fucking would occur. They would talk about the weather, movies, or restaurants, as the whole point was to let him get used to being inside a woman and not being brought to a quick orgasm; the only movement she was allowed was when she felt his erection soften. Even with no movement, he would probably cum in a few minutes anyway. But with repeat visits, the minutes would grow longer. Eventually, they could slowly move. And, finally, he could go the distance.
I was stretching her imagination. She loved hearing such a story. And she liked how I described the pride and joy I would take in her having such an occupation. An hour earlier, such a scenario would never have occurred to her; now, it was part of her fantasies while I ate her. In fact, she enjoyed this scenario so much that we roleplayed it. All roleplaying starts off fake and stilted, but can quickly transition into an alternate reality, wherein you actually feel that you are not acting, but just being yourself, albeit a different self.
If you haven't engaged in roleplaying, you are missing out on possibly the best sex you ever had.
Rajesh Krishna
Couple
You might want to consider renaming it Battery Operated Bull for her to get her mindset closer to a real one 😉
Role play is nice we do a lot of it
My wife took it up another notch. As has become the norm I ate her pussy her until she had an orgasm then she told me she was ready for Bob (her dildo) to fuck her. The entire time I was using bob on her she's again tell me how much she loves bob fucking her while I'm watching, how much she loves bob's cock, she will always spread her legs for Bob and I can only fuck her after bob is cum in her. After she came twice on her dildo she told me it was my turn. What was new was she's entire time we are fucking she's calling bob saying things like come on bob fuck me good and hard while my husband watches, I love the way you fuck me bob but what made cum was when she said I want you to cum in me bob while my husband watches, then since I hadn't even started to get soft I kept stroking into her pussy full of cum and it was fantastic.
Excellent progress. Point to your own hard cock and say, "If this were Bob's cock, what would he want to do you with it?"
Then roleplay as Bob, repeatedly asking what he would do next. At some future date, say the same thing but referring to some other man, possibly a movie star she fancies or a co-worker of hers or some fellow you two met earlier that day—he can be anyone other than you. Roleplaying is amazingly powerful. When you are fucking her as you, ask if Bob might be getting jealous watching you fuck her. This moves the topic away from actions to feelings. Emotions are more important to women than actions. They breathe and fly in an emotional atmosphere.
Ideally, you want her to tell you made up stories of what Bob (or some other man) did to her earlier that day. Eventually, fantasy and reality will overlap.
So now that she has moved from no to yes. You know she really likes the idea when she is aroused. It is up to you to lead her. smaller step instead of asking yes now questions use open questions while she is aroused. How do you think it would feel... Then reinforce your love and that she would be safe doing it. You desire her and this is another level of how she can show you her desire for you. Then when in public point out hot women and then ask her to point out hot guys for you. Praise her for doing that.
She has continued to take the lead in our role play and has even expanded it by telling me I'm a cuckold for her and bob and yesterday for the first time after we had sex she told me that she gets really turned on from our role play. I knew she did but she never admitted it before.
Demented_Donny
Male
Sometimes she does like the idea but has reservations she doesn't feel comfortable talking about.
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hope you start licking your cum from her pussy then just say I will lick Bob's cum from your pussy if you will let me.
That was also something new yesterday. While I was fucking her and she was talking like it was bob fucking her she told me she was going to make her cuck husband clean bob's cum from her pussy. I didn't eat her cream pie, don't know if I could really do it or if she really wanted me too because she didn't say anything about it after I came in her.
when I suck my lady tits - she will tell me to suck her tit like a cock - suck harder and deeper. You might suck her tit and ask -- do you know what I am fantasizing about -- same thing when you are licking her pussy.
I started telling her that Bob was her bull and now she has started telling me to eat her pussyfooting to get nice and wet for her bull.
I am in the exact same boat my friend. My wife loves screaming out the names of her "toys" but has taken a hard "No" on the real deal. We've taken many steps to getting where we're at now, so don't rush it. Respect the boundaries she put up and try to suggest or suggest to introduce new things. I can't say enough good things about the Shane Diesel BBC toy, if she might want to try bigger. My wife LOVES him. But for real, don't push or she will get pissed and shut the whole thing down.
No I don't push her. Actually she has been the one taking the lead in our role play the last two times we have had sex. Her attitude has changed also over the last few months. Yesterday evening when she came home from work she said she was going to have to start working ten hours a day and might stay with her ...... (my step ......) two nights a week since she only lives a few minutes from work, we live an hour away. I joked with my wife telling her she was just saying that so she could spend two nights a week with her boyfriend and that since I wouldn't be there to watch and have sloppy seconds to take videos or at least pictures. She smiled at me and said ok. A year ago that type of comment from me would have ...... on the couch for a week.
Your are about to suck a cock and eat a creampie. You just don’t know it yet. But the moment she tells you to, you really won’t have a say.
She may be working up to get you to “clean up her cream pie.” Clean up after yourself.
If she told you you needed to clean her messy pussy with your mouth and tongue after you came inside her you know she is expecting you to do it. If so, SUBMIT and dive right in. It will drive her wild.
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