Well all this started off after I got with my girl ( now my wife ) , one night we are having sex and she says she can’t feel me inside - not really measured but previous partners have said I have a good cock , anyway we then got a much bigger and thicker extension but that didn’t hit the spot either , so to speak . She knows I would love to see her satisfied so I set up an ad , we had lots of replies but my wife had said she only went along with it to see how far I would go with it and we had a blazing row , saying why did I want to share her , she makes out she is naive about sexual terms etc so why did she know it was called sharing ? She has never even tried a vibrator , so I convinced her to try it - now she has about 5!and every now and then some more juicy bits and pieces come to the surface of her previous encounters . No further mention had been made about someone else until recently , we were having a good vibe session - she know I love to watch - and I started talking dirty about her and to her and she really got off big time on it , she sort of answered a few of my questions like I asked her if she wanted to take a strangers cock and she said yes etc . I don’t think she was telling me what I wanted to hear as she was really thrusting hard against the vibe 😃she said last time I had sort of steamrollered her into sharing , so how do I bring out the inner slut in her and get her to share but at her pace and without coming across as being too eager ? Do you think she has been shared in the past and doesn’t want me judge her , she knows I’d love her to come home full of cum - she has judged me for having had a 3 some with a married couple ( I was single ) wayyyyy before I met her but then tells me a friend took his cock out in his workplace office but won’t say what she did with it so it’s alwAys a bit confusing for me to work her out - sorry it’s such a long message guys
Advice please - mixed messages from wife
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We seem to have a lot of these requests and everybody is different. So difficult to give solid advice when you don't know the lady in question. We often suggest cuckold porn movies to watch together and then gauge her responses. Hopefully it will spark a proper conversation. The idea of surprising her with another guy is very risky. So small steps to get there. My wife was very unsure and needed gentle persuasion. Once she stepped over the line, all was great. Its just that point of her agreeing to try a bit more.
Thanks for your reply whiskeytrot , no I wasn’t even considering surprising her with another guy , last time she was aware of the ad , we discussed type , age etc so she was fully aware , just felt it had all happened to fast and to partially trick me , again another issue is she states that porn doesn’t turn her on and because of last time I don’t push anything but I know for sure she was 100% turned on with the dirty talk - maybe I should leave it at that ? Just the subject matter of the dirty talk got me intrigued and her obvious reaction to it means there’s something more to it unless I’m reading too much into it ?
Some people on here have recommended certain films that aren't classed as full on porn but are cuckold orientated. So with a definite storyline and wife sharing, maybe that could spark more conversations. Unless you manage to dicuss it, then you'll never know.
I would suggest having a serious conversation with her when your clothes stay on. It is easy to be kinky in bed but then go back to vanilla later. It can be a difficult conversation the first time as she may think you want her to play so you can sleep with other women, too. That is often the hurdle and was a big one for my sexy wife. It took years of conversations about wanting her to be happy and fulfilled before my wife agreed. All along she wanted to play with others but didn't think it was fair if I didn't play too. We have been playing for 3.5 years and she has had over twenty other dicks in her mouth and pussy during this time. I remain 100% faithful to her. Talking with our clothes on was a key driver and consistency in my message was key. Not just when I was horny and pounding her pussy and ready to cum.
Yes that’s sound advice , thank you , I will need to impress upon her that I’m not interested at all in other woman and we have said stuff to each other in conversations mostly as a laugh , need to wait and try and find the right moment for a proper clothes on chat
Turbolovers088
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Don't tell her your interested in playing with other women what ever you do.She will more than likely pull away from the idea completely.let her be in control 100%
Update - had a chat in bed whilst she was vibing but not in the moment so to speak and she has mentioned someone else different from older guy she was helping - an ex work colleague - not sure if anything has happened before , anyway she asked about getting together with another couple as it wouldn’t be fair being left out and she would feel guilty about it . I replied that it would be fine as I wanted to share her and she wanted it too but was too shy / scared to admit it , I answered by saying I was fine with it as lng as she told me / shared everything about it and she could say I didn’t know ( he is married ) . I told her he could fuck her regularly or as often as she wanted and if the chance arose would she take it - wow she said she would let him fuck her , just have to keep reassuring her I’m ok with it and no guilt on her part
Update on the update - I’ve also been wearing touch of make up more often and buying more clothes and stuff - in short being more fem all round - the ex work colleague appears to be a mans man ( ho really knows though eh lol ) my wife knows and supports me to a large extent with my sissyness. Hopefully that might be an extra nudge in his direction
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