Advice needed for my Pakistani wife

[nd4spd100]

Hi everyone. Absolutely loving this forum and decided to post my problem on here as well. Would appreciate realistic advice please.

We are a married couple from Pakistan, I am in my early 40s, she in her last 30s. We have been married for 15 years and have two children. My wife is a typical Pakistani woman - a good wife, a good mother and a fairly practising Muslim. Based on her behaviour and her religious nature, I have never broached the subject of my fantasies - for fear of her freaking out or worse. I personally think, at this point, that while my fantasy might be to share her, it is something that can never become a reality. She'd probably sooner die than let that happen. Having said that, I would love to see her with another man or men and really do wish to have that happen, I would be overjoyed even if she were open to roleplaying about it etc.

For now, there are two things I want to bring to our sex life - watching porn together and anal sex. Both are forbidden from a religious point of view so I feel that might be a big stumbling block - and something she might use to aid her in resisting getting into this. Our sex life currently is good - 2-4 times a week but its starting to get monotonous and I'm craving something new. Maybe she is too, but when I ask her, she says she's very happy with it.

I'm open to a discussion or advice or anything that the experienced members here can offer. Thank you in advance for your help and time. I would specially welcome advice from Indian/Pakistani/Muslim women, as I feel their insight would be quite on point!

 

[Quarky]

Talk, talk, talk and LISTEN. Do you do anything to 'spice-up' the sex? Toys/sexy lingerie/cum on her face/spanking/her dominating you etc etc, give her a sensual massage? Maybe that would be the place to start - explore her kinks by gently introdcing new things...see how she reacts, then maybe open up the conversation. the mind is the largest and best erogenous zone.


Gently introduce the idea of watching porn - maybe accidentally let her catch you watching it just before you fuck- soft-core perhaps to start...something you think she will like. Or during foreplay, say you'd like to watch with her...

Ask her in the moments she is horny what her fantasy might be and tell her it is safe to do so - say you won't judge her. Do you tell her things when you fuck? tell her 'in the moment' - you can always laugh it off as over-excitement afterwards

Anal - My ex point blank refused to do anal...so I worked on it respecting her all the way. She loved it in the end. don't try and fuck her ass right away...start slow...when you lick her pussy, let your tongue wander to her asshole...nice and slow...work up to slipping the tip in...see how she reacts...I guarantee you will get super horny. When fucking doggy, place a thumb on her asshole, press down but don't stuck it in straight away...work up to that and notice and respect how she reacts. Toys/butt plugs, then possibly your cock.

THere are really only three things to remember with anal - lube, lube, and lube.

 

[Rough Diamond]

I think you can spice it up without these two.
Im married for 15yrs. Wanted to get her to do anal she shut that down. Watched a bit of porn together but she wasnt into it so dropped it.
However finding lingerie for her and taking pvt pics that were immidiately deleted initially, was a great spice up. Now posing for sexy pics is a routine before sex and dabbling into vids of sex and masturbation. Most of them we delete immidiately, but i have kept others and shared once in a while

would love to see some nice hot pics

 

[The Caretaker]

ya show what she looks like

 

[Rough Diamond]

really nice - looking forward

 

[sameerdev]

Hi everyone. Absolutely loving this forum and decided to post my problem on here as well. Would appreciate realistic advice please.

We are a married couple from Pakistan, I am in my early 40s, she in her last 30s. We have been married for 15 years and have two children. My wife is a typical Pakistani woman - a good wife, a good mother and a fairly practising Muslim. Based on her behaviour and her religious nature, I have never broached the subject of my fantasies - for fear of her freaking out or worse. I personally think, at this point, that while my fantasy might be to share her, it is something that can never become a reality. She'd probably sooner die than let that happen. Having said that, I would love to see her with another man or men and really do wish to have that happen, I would be overjoyed even if she were open to roleplaying about it etc.

For now, there are two things I want to bring to our sex life - watching porn together and anal sex. Both are forbidden from a religious point of view so I feel that might be a big stumbling block - and something she might use to aid her in resisting getting into this. Our sex life currently is good - 2-4 times a week but its starting to get monotonous and I'm craving something new. Maybe she is too, but when I ask her, she says she's very happy with it.

I'm open to a discussion or advice or anything that the experienced members here can offer. Thank you in advance for your help and time. I would specially welcome advice from Indian/Pakistani/Muslim women, as I feel their insight would be quite

Hi you can show her threesome or cuckold video when you intimate with her and tells her between intercourse. Or try my service I m from India come with her and enjoy watch fuck by strenger

 

[Joalalme]

Sorry bro, you have a big problem, she's muslim. I can say nothing about it. You need to star in your bed.

 

[Paki-couple]

Hi everyone. Absolutely loving this forum and decided to post my problem on here as well. Would appreciate realistic advice please.

We are a married couple from Pakistan, I am in my early 40s, she in her last 30s. We have been married for 15 years and have two children. My wife is a typical Pakistani woman - a good wife, a good mother and a fairly practising Muslim. Based on her behaviour and her religious nature, I have never broached the subject of my fantasies - for fear of her freaking out or worse. I personally think, at this point, that while my fantasy might be to share her, it is something that can never become a reality. She'd probably sooner die than let that happen. Having said that, I would love to see her with another man or men and really do wish to have that happen, I would be overjoyed even if she were open to roleplaying about it etc.

For now, there are two things I want to bring to our sex life - watching porn together and anal sex. Both are forbidden from a religious point of view so I feel that might be a big stumbling block - and something she might use to aid her in resisting getting into this. Our sex life currently is good - 2-4 times a week but its starting to get monotonous and I'm craving something new. Maybe she is too, but when I ask her, she says she's very happy with it.

I'm open to a discussion or advice or anything that the experienced members here can offer. Thank you in advance for your help and time. I would specially welcome advice from Indian/Pakistani/Muslim women, as I feel their insight would be quite on point!

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